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  • How Can I Help My Child’s Tummy Ache Naturally?

    How Can I Help My Child’s Tummy Ache Naturally?

    Simple Comfort Measures for Little Tummies

    “Mooooom. My tummy hurts.”

    Four words that can mean approximately 847 different things.

    Are you hungry?

    Do you need to poop?

    Did you eat seventeen handfuls of cheese crackers?

    Are you nervous about school tomorrow?

    Or are we actually getting sick?

    Welcome to motherhood. 😂

    If you’re wondering how to help your child’s upset tummy naturally, there are several simple comfort measures you can try at home.

    I like starting with the basics—hydration, rest, warmth, gentle foods and figuring out what might be causing the discomfort.

    And because natural wellness is part of our family’s routine, I’ll also show you a couple of the Young Living products I like keeping in my Mom Toolkit for those inevitable “my tummy hurts” moments.


    Why Does My Child Keep Saying Their Stomach Hurts?

    Before reaching for anything, I like to play detective.

    An upset tummy in children can have lots of possible causes, including:

    • Constipation
    • Gas
    • Eating too much
    • Eating too quickly
    • A stomach virus
    • Food sensitivities
    • Hunger
    • Dehydration
    • Stress or anxiety
    • Changes in routine

    Sometimes the answer is obvious.

    Other times?

    Good luck, Sherlock Mom.

    The important thing is to pay attention to your child’s overall behavior and symptoms, not just the words “my stomach hurts.”

    If they’re otherwise acting normally and the discomfort is mild, I usually start with some simple comfort measures.

    1. Start With Hydration

    This is one of the simplest places to begin.

    Offer small, frequent sips of water rather than encouraging your child to gulp a huge amount at once.

    If they’ve been vomiting or have diarrhea, ask your healthcare professional about an appropriate oral rehydration solution, particularly for younger children.

    And don’t underestimate dehydration.

    Sometimes a little body simply needs fluids.

    2. Don’t Force Food

    I know.

    We’re moms.

    Feeding people is practically part of the job description.

    But if your child’s stomach is upset and they don’t want to eat, you don’t necessarily need to push a big meal.

    When they’re ready for food, try simple foods they normally tolerate well.

    Depending on the child, that might include things such as:

    • Toast
    • Rice
    • Banana
    • Applesauce
    • Crackers
    • Soup
    • Potatoes
    • Oatmeal

    Follow your child’s appetite and your pediatrician’s recommendations.

    The goal isn’t to create the world’s most nutritionally impressive dinner while somebody feels like they’re going to throw up.

    Simple is okay.

    Upset Tummy

    3. Try a Little Warmth

    This is one of my favorite old-fashioned Mom tricks.

    A warm compress or heating pad on a low, comfortable setting with supervision can sometimes be comforting for tummy aches or cramping.

    There’s just something about warmth. My mom always gave me the heating jug.

    Add a blanket, couch and Mom cuddles and suddenly we’ve created the Ritz-Carlton of stomachaches.

    4. Ask the Question Nobody Wants to Ask

    When did you poop last?

    😂

    I’m serious.

    Constipation is a common cause of abdominal pain in children.

    Pay attention to whether your child has been having regular bowel movements and whether stools are hard or painful to pass.

    Water, movement and fiber-rich foods can support normal bowel habits, but persistent or significant constipation is something to discuss with your child’s healthcare provider.

    Apparently motherhood includes keeping track of everyone’s poop.

    Nobody mentioned that in the brochure.

    5. Encourage Gentle Movement

    If your child feels up to it, a little gentle movement can sometimes be helpful.

    Nothing crazy.

    We’re not doing CrossFit in the living room.

    A short walk around the house, stretching or simply changing positions may help them feel more comfortable, especially when gas or constipation could be contributing.

    If movement makes the pain significantly worse, however, pay attention to that and contact their healthcare professional if you’re concerned.

    6. Remember That Worry Can Hurt a Tummy Too

    This one is easy to overlook.

    Kids don’t always say:

    “Mother, I appear to be experiencing anxiety.”

    They say:

    “My stomach hurts.”

    Big feelings can show up physically.

    School worries.

    Friend problems.

    A test tomorrow.

    Changes at home.

    Overstimulation.

    Something scary they saw.

    Even excitement can create butterflies and tummy discomfort.

    If the stomachache seems to appear around particular situations, gently ask:

    “Is anything worrying you?”

    Sometimes the tummy needs comfort.

    Sometimes the kid needs comfort.

    And sometimes it’s both.

    7. Create a Calm Environment

    When kids don’t feel well, I like turning everything down a notch.

    Dim the lights.

    Lower the television.

    Bring out the favorite blanket.

    Offer water.

    Put away the chaos for a little while.

    Read together.

    Cuddle.

    Let their body rest.

    We can’t control everything happening inside their little bodies, but we can make the environment around them feel safe and calm.


    What’s in My Young Living Mom Toolkit for Little Tummies?

    This is where natural living fits into our house.

    I don’t expect an essential oil to diagnose what’s causing a stomachache, and I’m certainly not using one instead of medical care when my child needs it.

    But I do love having simple products around that can become part of our comfort routine.

    And one of my favorites for kids is:

    KidScents TummyGize

    Young Living’s KidScents TummyGize is specifically formulated with children in mind.

    The blend contains essential oils including:

    • Spearmint
    • Peppermint
    • Tangerine
    • Fennel
    • Anise
    • Ginger
    • Cardamom

    Young Living describes TummyGize as having a naturally comforting aroma for tiny tummies. (It’s under $20)!!

    There’s also a TummyGize Roll-On, which I particularly like because it’s already diluted and easy to use.

    Because when a child is saying,

    “Mom. My tummy hurts. Mom. Mom. MOM.”

    I’m personally not interested in locating three bottles, measuring carrier oil and conducting a chemistry experiment. 😂

    Roll. Done. Mom wins.

    For the current U.S. KidScents products, Young Living recommends TummyGize for children ages 2–12. Always follow the current label directions and supervise use.

    What About DiGize?

    This is another Young Living product you’ll hear me talk about.

    DiGize contains essential oils including:

    • Tarragon
    • Ginger
    • Peppermint
    • Juniper
    • Fennel
    • Lemongrass
    • Anise
    • Patchouli

    Young Living describes DiGize as providing a comforting aromatic experience when applied topically according to label directions. It’s also less than $20.00!

    I think of TummyGize as my kid-focused option and DiGize as another product I like having in the family wellness cabinet for appropriate use.

    Again, essential oils aren’t my substitute for figuring out why someone’s stomach hurts.

    They’re one piece of my overall natural wellness routine.


    When Should I Call the Doctor About My Child’s Stomach Pain?

    This part matters.

    Most parents develop a pretty impressive internal alarm system.

    You know the difference between:

    “My tummy feels funny.”

    and

    “Something isn’t right with my child.”

    Seek medical advice promptly if your child has symptoms such as:

    • Severe or worsening abdominal pain
    • A hard, swollen or very tender abdomen
    • Persistent vomiting
    • Blood in vomit or stool
    • Signs of dehydration
    • Difficulty breathing
    • Unusual weakness, confusion or difficulty waking
    • A concerning fever
    • Pain that continues or repeatedly returns
    • Or your child simply seems significantly sicker than usual

    And when your Mom Radar is screaming at you?

    Listen to it.

    Upset tummy: when to call the doctor

    I’d much rather have a medical professional tell me everything looks okay than ignore something important.

    Natural living and modern medicine don’t have to be enemies.

    I use both.


    My Simple Upset-Tummy Routine

    For an ordinary mild tummy ache without concerning symptoms, my approach is pretty simple:

    Small sips of water.

    Don’t force food.

    Warmth.

    Check the poop situation.

    Gentle movement if appropriate.

    Ask about worries.

    Create a calm environment.

    Use age-appropriate Mom Toolkit products according to their directions.

    And then watch.

    Sometimes the best thing we can give our kids is simply a little time, comfort and Mom.

    Upset tummy routine

    Want to Know What’s in My Mom Toolkit?

    After raising kids, I’ve learned something:

    You don’t want to start figuring out what you need after somebody starts yelling,

    “MOOOOOM!”

    That’s why I created my Mom Toolkit.

    It’s a simple guide to some of the things I like having around for those everyday family moments—little tummies, sniffly seasons, bedtime struggles, boo-boos and those days when everybody needs a little extra TLC.

    Download Jenn’s FREE Mom Toolkit

    Inside, I’ll show you some of my favorite Young Living products, what I keep them around for, and how I fit them into our family’s everyday routines.

    No hype.

    No buying 47 bottles because somebody on the internet told you to.

    No pretending essential oils replace your pediatrician.

    Just one mom showing another mom:

    “Here’s what I like keeping in my cabinet. Take what helps you.”

    → DOWNLOAD MY FREE MOM TOOLKIT

    Start small.

    Build your toolkit as you go.

    And hopefully the next time you hear…

    “Mooooom. My tummy hurts.”

    …you’ll already have a few ideas.


    This article is for educational purposes only and isn’t medical advice. Essential oils and Young Living products are not intended to diagnose, treat, cure or prevent disease. Always follow current product labels, age recommendations and usage directions. Contact your child’s healthcare professional with questions about symptoms, medical conditions or appropriate treatment.

    PS. Here is my whole alternative arsenal that I keep for upset tummies. See what is right for you.

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  • How to Help Kids Focus on Homework: 10 Tips That Worked

    How to Help Kids Focus on Homework: 10 Tips That Worked

    Homework Help

    Do your evenings turn into homework battles?

    Are you wondering how to help your child focus on homework without tears, frustration, or hours at the kitchen table? I’ve been there and it’s TORTURE.

    When my son was about six years old, homework became the hardest part of our day. He struggled to remember his alphabet. Numbers like 6 and 9 often became confused. Writing simple math problems was incredibly difficult for him, even though he could solve many of them in his head.

    Some nights homework lasted from 7:00 p.m. until nearly 11:30 p.m. He cried. His hands shook. Sometimes he even broke out in a stress rash because he was so overwhelmed.

    As his mom, I wasn’t worried about a worksheet. I was worried about my little boy.

    Eventually, medical testing and psychological evaluations helped us understand what was going on. We found therapies, educational support, and new routines that completely changed the way we approached homework.

    Today, that same little boy is a college graduate and works full-time as a computer programmer. His charm, smile, and peaceful demeanor are attributes that I frankly wasn’t sure existed when he was little. During prayer I referred to him as my “Little Archie Bunker.” 😂

    If you’re searching for how to make homework easier or looking for homework tips for kids who struggle to focus, I hope these ideas encourage you.

    1. Keep Homework Sessions Short

    One of the biggest breakthroughs for us was realizing that longer wasn’t better.

    Instead of fighting through an hour of frustration, we worked for about five minutes, then took a ten-minute movement break.

    Those short breaks changed everything.


    2. Get Kids Moving

    During breaks, my son went outside.

    He swung, ran around, played with his bubble gun (favorite) and jumped on the trampoline. Movement helped him return to homework calmer and more focused.


    3. Remove Distractions

    Our television stayed off. Music stayed off. He was easily overwhelmed by extra sounds. Creating a quiet environment helped him concentrate much better.


    4. Celebrate Every Small Victory

    We stopped waiting until the worksheet was finished to celebrate. Sometimes we celebrated one completed row of math problems. Tiny victories build confidence.


    5. Find a Meaningful Reward

    For my son, it wasn’t expensive. It was ice cream. Knowing something fun waited at the end of his hard work helped him persevere. Every child is different, so find a reward that truly motivates yours.


    6. Build Predictable Homework Routines

    Children often thrive when they know exactly what to expect. Doing homework at the same time, in the same place, with the same routine reduced stress for our family.


    7. Create a Calm Environment

    Our family discovered that little things made a difference. A tidy workspace. Softer lighting (no above lighting) and no background television.

    We also enjoyed diffusing Cedarwood with a couple drops of Joy essential oil blend during homework time because we found its woodsy aroma helped create a peaceful atmosphere. I would also place a drop on his wrists (try it – trust me).

    Oils Starter Kit

    Later in the evening, we often used Sleepyze as part of our bedtime routine to help signal that the busy day was coming to an end. We used the diffuser and rubbed some on the bottoms of their feet. Sometimes, we put socks on the boys before they went to bed, that way they couldn’t smell the oils.

    sleepyze oil blend for children (I use it too)

    Another great homework helper is Genyus oil blend. I like to let my kids keep this in their pockets, allowing them to apply the oils at the stem of their necks or on their chests when they feel like they need help focusing.

    Reconnect Kit for children

    8. Ask for Help

    You don’t have to figure everything out alone. Evaluations, teachers, therapists, physicians, and support programs completely changed our family’s journey. Sometimes asking for help is the bravest thing a parent can do.


    9. Support the Whole Child

    Homework isn’t the only thing that matters:

    Sleep.

    Nutrition.

    Exercise.

    Emotional well-being.

    Professional support when needed.

    All of these pieces work together to help children learn and grow.


    10. Never Lose Hope

    When we were sitting at the kitchen table until almost midnight, I couldn’t imagine our future. I certainly never imagined my son graduating from college and becoming a computer programmer.

    Honestly, my one wildly important goal was for him to read well enough to get through an airport. – Oh boy!

    But growth doesn’t always happen quickly. Sometimes it happens one worksheet…

    a special therapy session…

    an especially encouraging conversation…

    and one small victory at a time.

    Keep going. PS He couldn’t remember his whole alphabet or read until 11 years old. His biggest gains happened between 16-17. No one to this day knows why. I believe it was answered prayer.


    Our Family’s Homework Routine

    Every family is different, but these were a few of the things we incorporated into our homework routine:

    • Five-minute homework sessions with movement breaks
    • Quiet, screen-free environment
    • Plenty of encouragement
    • Small rewards for effort
    • Diffusing Cedarwood during homework time with a drip or two of Joy essential oil blend
    • KidScents Geneyus as part of our family’s learning routine
    • Sleepyze in the evening to help transition into bedtime

    Homework Help

    These weren’t magic solutions, but they became part of the calm, predictable environment that worked well for our family. And when I say calm… there were some breaking of furniture incidents and tears in between. However, we found a system that worked most of the time.

    If it was an especially tough time, we skipped homework all together. I always wrote a note and explained. Sometimes, we just know our kids and realize it isn’t happening today. I believe tapping out once in a while is ok.

    Free Homework Success Checklist

    If homework has become stressful in your home, I’d love to help.

    Download my Homework Success Checklist for practical ideas you can begin using today to create calmer, more productive homework routines.

    Download your free Homework Success Checklist here.

    Homework Help

    Frequently Asked Questions

    Why does my child cry during homework?

    Some children become overwhelmed because of learning differences, anxiety, attention challenges, fatigue, or frustration. If homework consistently causes significant distress, talk with your child’s teacher or healthcare provider to better understand what may be contributing.


    How long should homework sessions last?

    Many children do better with shorter work periods and regular breaks. Our family found that brief homework sessions followed by movement breaks worked much better than long, stressful evenings.


    How can I motivate my child to do homework?

    Positive encouragement, predictable routines, meaningful rewards, and celebrating small successes often work better than punishment or constant reminders.


    What if homework takes hours every night?

    If homework regularly lasts several hours, it’s worth discussing the situation with your child’s teacher. Extremely long homework sessions can sometimes signal that additional support or accommodations may be helpful.

    *Most teachers told us to abort mission after an hour. An hour?!? An hour for a six-eight year old boy was crazy talk to me. I soon found specialized schooling that encouraged homework to be about twenty minutes, thankfully.

    **Every child is unique. The ideas in this article are based on our family’s personal experience and are shared for educational purposes. They are not a substitute for medical, psychological, or educational advice. If you’re concerned about your child’s learning or behavior, please speak with your child’s healthcare provider or school team.

    Parents: if you suspect or others have suspected that your child needs some extra help. I know it’s a tough pill to swallow. But get answers sooner than later. The early intervention window closes around 5 years old.

    Some parents hate labeling kids. I will say this: many more doors of opportunity and funding open with a diagnosis. Listen to what doctor’s and specialist’s suggest. Do your own research. Many children respond in an unexpected way to interventions. There may just be a prodigy in your family that would go unknown without some specialized supports.


    For more on this subject, see the post about Staying Healthy Holistically Back To School Edition.

  • Why Am I So Irritable After 40? 6 Simple Ways to Calm Your Mind and Feel More Like Yourself Again

    Why Am I So Irritable After 40? 6 Simple Ways to Calm Your Mind and Feel More Like Yourself Again

    Irritable?

    Irritable? Many women our age find themselves grump way too much! Have you ever snapped at someone you love… and then immediately wondered, “What is wrong with me?”

    Maybe you’re more impatient than you used to be. Little inconveniences suddenly feel like major problems. You’re overwhelmed, emotionally drained, and you just don’t feel like yourself anymore.

    If you’ve been asking, “Why am I so irritable after 40?”, you’re certainly not alone.

    While hormonal changes can contribute to mood changes, they aren’t the whole story. Chronic stress, decision fatigue, information overload, and constantly caring for everyone else can leave your nervous system feeling like it’s stuck in overdrive and so very irritable.

    The encouraging news? You don’t have to completely change your life to start feeling better. Small daily habits can help bring more peace into your mind and your home.

    1. Create a “Pause Before You React” Habit

    When something frustrates you, resist the urge to respond immediately.

    Instead, pause for just ten seconds. Take one slow breath and ask yourself: “Will this still matter next week?”

    Those few seconds often give your emotions time to settle before your words take over. This helps everyone who activates it be much less irritable.

    2. Feed Your Mind with Encouragement

    What you listen to matters. Instead of starting your day with stressful news or endless social media scrolling, spend 10 to 15 minutes listening to something that encourages you.

    Try:

    • Worship music
    • An uplifting podcast
    • An encouraging audiobook
    • A devotional
    • A sermon

    Your mind needs healthy input just as much as your body needs healthy food. Starve the irritation, feed joy.

    3. Calm Your Nervous System with Deep Breathing to be less irritable

    One simple breathing exercise can help your body shift from “fight or flight” toward a calmer state, being less irritable.

    Try this:

    • Take a slow, deep breath in through your nose.

    • Before exhaling, take one short second inhale.

    • Slowly exhale through your mouth.

    Repeat three to five times. It’s simple, free, and can be surprisingly calming during stressful moments.

    4. Reduce Decision Fatigue to Be Less Irritable

    Many women make hundreds of decisions every day.

    What should I cook?

    Who needs a ride?

    What should I wear?

    Who needs me first?

    Give tomorrow’s version of yourself a gift. Before bed, write down your three most important priorities for the next day.

    Planning ahead helps reduce mental clutter and allows you to begin your morning with purpose instead of overwhelm and will help you be less irritable.

    5. Create One Quiet Pocket Every Day

    Your brain wasn’t designed to process constant notifications. Give yourself permission to unplug for just ten minutes.

    No phone needed.

    Stop the television.

    Do not check email.

    Just quiet.

    Sit outside.

    Read your Bible.

    Enjoy a cup of tea.

    Sometimes peace isn’t found by adding more—it’s found by slowing down. This space creates more joy and less irritable mood.

    6. Celebrate More Than You Criticize

    Our brains naturally notice problems. What if we intentionally looked for victories instead?

    Each evening, ask yourself:

    • What went well today?
    • Who made me smile?
    • What encouraged me?
    • Who can I encourage tomorrow?

    Celebrating small wins gradually changes what your mind expects to find, leading to a less irritable mood.

    Wellness Products I Personally Enjoy

    Healthy habits are always my first recommendation, but I also enjoy using a few Young Living products as part of my daily wellness routine.

    Daily Hormone Essentials

    Easy to take sachets that include Ashwagandha, and other ingredients that really target women’s needs from early cycling through to even after menopause.

    These taste like Carmel. I find them a great addition to my self care routine, resulting in less hot flashes, less mood swings, and over all feeling better! You should try them too.

    Daily Hormone Essentials

    Stress Away®

    Stress Away has a warm, relaxing aroma that I enjoy during especially busy days or while winding down in the evening.

    I used this almost daily when my kids were younger, especially after stressful school days. I would drip it in my heating/cooling vents in my mini van. It brought an instant change to the atmosphere in a positive way.

    Super B®

    Super B contains B vitamins that help support normal energy metabolism. I enjoy taking it as part of my morning routine alongside healthy food, hydration, and other daily habits.

    My joke is that I’m a “Super B,” without these. I feel more vibrant, alert, and hopeful taking this supplement. Try it, this might help you as well.

    So many clients are thankful for this product. They say it is difficult to find a solid B complex vitamin.

    Motivation: Super B

    Please note: These products are not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease. I simply enjoy incorporating them into my healthy lifestyle alongside nutritious food, movement, hydration, and time with God.

    The Bottom Line

    If you’ve been wondering, “Why am I so irritable after 40?”, remember this:

    You aren’t failing.

    You may simply have a nervous system that’s been carrying too much for too long.

    Instead of trying to change everything at once, choose one small habit this week.

    Pause before reacting.

    Listen to something encouraging.

    Take a few deep breaths.

    Celebrate one small win.

    Small steps create big change—and sometimes, the smallest habits bring the greatest peace.

    Ready to Create a Healthier, Calmer Home?

    Want more wellness naturally? Download my FREE Wellness Guide here for easy small steps to feeling better, moving better, and sleeping better!

    Together, we’ll take one small step at a time toward a healthier, more peaceful life.

    For more information about mood support, check out this article: Finding More Motivation After 40.

    Talk Soon,

    Jenn

  • Why Do I Have No Motivation? 6 Simple Ways to Get Moving Again After 40

    Why Do I Have No Motivation? 6 Simple Ways to Get Moving Again After 40

    Motivation

    Motivation? Have you ever looked around your house and thought, “I know exactly what I need to do… I just can’t seem to get started?”

    You’re not lazy. You’re not failing. And you’re definitely not alone. Ever wondered why middle aged women lack motivation?

    Many women over 40 notice they don’t have the motivation they once had. Between work, family responsibilities, hormonal changes, stress, and simply taking care of everyone else, it’s easy to feel mentally and physically drained.

    The good news? You don’t need to completely change your life overnight. Often, it’s the small daily habits that help create momentum and get us moving again. With small tweaks motivation is restored!

    Here are six simple ideas that may help motivation:

    1. End Your Day with a Gratitude Journal will increase motivation

    Before you go to bed, write down three things you’re thankful for. They don’t have to be big things. Maybe it’s a beautiful sunset. A cup of coffee with a friend, hug from your child, or even an answered prayer.

    Ending your day with gratitude can help shift your focus from everything that’s weighing you down to the blessings that are already around you. This brings lasting motivation as life looks brighter, and less daunting.

    2. Start Your Morning with Hydration and ElectrolytesThis is huge motivation for me

    After sleeping for several hours, your body naturally wakes up dehydrated. Before reaching for another cup of coffee, drink a glass of water or an electrolyte drink.

    Many people find they feel more refreshed and ready to start the day when they begin with proper hydration. I feel a bit of energy flood my being when I do this.

    May I suggest Drip Drop? I just did an Instagram reel suggesting this. It isn’t the most clean electrolyte, but it sure helps me first thing in the morning. The other one I like is made by Just Ingredients.

    3. Get Outside for Morning Sunlight

    One of the simplest things you can do is step outside for 10 to 15 minutes shortly after waking up. Morning sunlight helps support your body’s natural internal clock and can help you feel more awake during the day.

    Take your coffee outside. Walk around the block. Sit on your porch. It’s something about being outdoors that supports motivation. It doesn’t have to be complicated.

    4. Write Down Tomorrow’s Three Priorities

    One of the biggest motivation killers is decision fatigue.

    Instead of waking up wondering where to begin, spend two minutes before bed writing down the three most important things you’d like to accomplish tomorrow.

    When you wake up, you already have a plan. Small plans often create big momentum. Momentum equates to motivation.

    5. Celebrate One Win Every Day

    Most of us finish one task and immediately think about everything we still haven’t done.

    Instead, pause for a moment. Celebrate one victory.

    Maybe you drank more water or cleaned the kitchen, or you simply made it through a difficult day. Small victories matter because they build confidence and remind us that progress is happening; which increases motivation.

    6. Stop Waiting to Feel Motivated

    This may be the biggest mindset shift of all. Many people believe motivation comes first. In reality, action often comes first.

    Don’t wait until you feel like organizing the house. Put away five things. Don’t wait until you feel like exercising. Walk for five minutes. Don’t wait until you feel inspired. Start anyway.

    Momentum is often created by taking one small step. Which essentially is motivation.

    How often have I wanted to call off an appointment or project because I felt “under the weather;” only to find that once I started going, I felt great? Sometimes we have have to kick our own ace, and get moving!

    Wellness Products I Personally Enjoy

    Healthy habits are always my first recommendation. Along with nutritious food, hydration, sunlight, and healthy routines, I also enjoy using a few Young Living products as part of my daily wellness routine.

    Super B®

    Super B contains several B vitamins that help support normal energy metabolism. Since B vitamins help the body convert food into energy, I enjoy taking it as part of my morning routine.

    My big joke is that “I’m a Super B without Super B.” It sounds funny, but it’s true. I feel so much better taking this. My kids, I’m quite certain, would say I am nicer as well.

    Motivation: Super B

    NingXia Red®

    NingXia Red is an antioxidant-rich wellness drink made with wolfberries and other fruit juices. I enjoy starting my morning with a serving as part of my overall wellness routine.

    When I drink NingXia Red daily, I tend to be healthier. Feeling stronger, without battling symptoms is a great way to gain motivation.

    NingXia Red Drink

    Zyng®

    When I need an afternoon boost, I enjoy Zyng. It contains naturally sourced caffeine and is a refreshing alternative to another cup of coffee for many people.

    My favorite hobby currently is getting young people to switch from over the counter, popular energy drinks to Zyng. This is a much healthier, pure solution with a guaranteed no need to go to the ER after drinking one or two. This is such great peace of mind for parents.

    Please note: These products are not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease. I simply enjoy using them as part of a healthy lifestyle that includes nutritious food, hydration, movement, sunlight, and stress management.

    The Bottom Line

    If you’ve been wondering, “Why do I have no motivation?”, please know that you’re not alone.

    Life after 40 can be busy, stressful, and overwhelming. But you don’t have to change everything today.

    Choose one small habit.

    Then another.

    Over time, those little choices can build the momentum you’ve been looking for.

    Remember…

    Small steps create big change.

    Ready for One Small Step?

    Download my free Wellness Guide for more information on feeling better and living your best life yet!

    I can’t wait to encourage you on your journey!

    Talk Soon,

    Jenn

    PS For more along these lines, read my article about: Puffy after 40 and Ways to Help.

  • Reduce Stress Naturally

    Reduce Stress Naturally

    How to Reduce Stress Naturally When Life Feels Like Too Much

    Reduce Stress? Simple Wellness Habits for Overwhelmed Women Over 40

    Woman stressed with baby sitting on counter of kitchen

    Stress? Do you ever feel like you’re carrying the weight of the world on your shoulders?

    Not just physically, but mentally, emotionally, and spiritually. You wake up tired, pushing through the day and still taking care of everyone else. Then you crawl into bed wondering why you feel so exhausted, overwhelmed, and unlike yourself.

    If that sounds familiar, friend, you are not alone. This is a WE issue. We all deal with the same things, even putting our pants on the same way – ha! Let’s find how to reduce stress naturally.

    Many women over 40 are carrying more responsibility than ever before:

    • raising children
    • caring for aging parents
    • managing careers
    • handling finances
    • supporting family members
    • navigating hormone changes
    • trying to stay healthy
    • balance online friends
    • keeping up with extended family
    • so many plates, in the air, at the same time.

    It’s a lot. So much for one person to carry.

    The good news is that stress doesn’t have to run the show. While we can’t eliminate every challenge in life, there are simple ways to support the body and mind naturally.

    Let’s talk about them.


    What Stress Can Look Like in Women Over 40 (Reducing Stress Naturally)

    Stress doesn’t always show up as feeling anxious. Sometimes it looks like:

    • exhaustion
    • brain fog
    • irritability
    • tension headaches
    • neck and shoulder tightness
    • poor sleep
    • sugar cravings
    • low motivation
    • feeling overwhelmed
    • waking up tired

    Many women assume something is wrong with them. But often, the body is simply responding to an extended season of pressure.

    The body keeps score. Which is why supporting your body matters.


    5 Natural Ways to Reduce Stress Naturally

    1. Get Outside Every Day

    Fresh air, sunlight, and movement are powerful.

    Even a 10-minute walk can help create a break from the constant demands of life. You don’t need a perfect fitness routine, moving is all that is needed.

    Try:

    • walking after dinner
    • sitting on the porch with your coffee
    • taking a quick walk around the block
    • stretching outside

    Small amounts count.


    2. Release Stress Stored in the Body

    Many women carry stress in their:

    • neck
    • shoulders
    • jaw
    • upper back

    Sound familiar?

    Try this simple stress reset:

    Doorway Stretch

    • Stand in a doorway.
    • Place your forearms on the door frame.
    • Gently lean forward.
    • Hold for 20–30 seconds.

    Shoulder Rolls

    • Roll shoulders backward 10 times.
    • Take three slow deep breaths.

    You’d be amazed how much tension we carry without realizing it. Hopefully, not with arson (😂).


    3. Create a 5-Minute Quiet Routine

    You do not need an hour-long morning routine.

    You need a few moments of peace.

    Ideas:

    • prayer
    • journaling
    • reading Scripture
    • deep breathing
    • gratitude journaling
    • sitting quietly with a cup of tea

    The goal is simple:

    Create a small pocket of calm before the world starts demanding things from you.


    4. Simplify Your Life with Systems

    One of the biggest stress reducers I’ve discovered is creating simple systems.

    Things like:

    • meal planning
    • laying out clothes the night before
    • keeping a family calendar
    • creating routines
    • using checklists

    Systems reduce decision fatigue. And less decision fatigue means less stress. This is one reason I often say: “You don’t need more hustle. You need better systems.


    5. Support Your Body’s Basic Needs

    Sometimes the biggest improvements come from the simplest habits.

    Focus on:

    • drinking enough water
    • eating protein throughout the day
    • getting quality sleep
    • reducing excessive caffeine
    • moving your body regularly

    These basics are often overlooked, but they matter tremendously.


    Wellness Tools I Personally Enjoy to Reduce stress Naturally

    As part of my wellness routine, I also enjoy incorporating plant-based wellness products alongside healthy habits.

    These products are not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent disease.

    Stress Away

    Many people enjoy Stress Away as part of a calming evening routine, during quiet time, or while winding down after a busy day.

    stress away

    NingXia Red

    NingXia Red is an antioxidant-rich beverage that many people enjoy as part of their daily wellness routine.

    NingXia Red Drink

    Sleepyize

    Many women prioritize healthy sleep habits as part of stress management and overall wellness support. Sleepyize is one tool some people choose to include in their evening routine.


    Deep Relief Roll-On

    After long days spent at a desk or caring for others, many people enjoy Deep Relief as part of a self-care and relaxation routine.

    essential oil roller for soreness

    Final Thoughts

    Friend, if life has felt heavy lately, I want you to hear this: we are carrying a lot. It seems like in our 40s-50s, it starts to catch up with us. Ugh.

    But, my heart and hope is that we find tools that enable us to thrive in this post. Sometimes the most powerful thing you can do is stop trying to push harder and start supporting yourself better.

    Stress may be a part of life. But it doesn’t have to define your life. Small daily habits matter. Simple support matters. And so do you. You are a gift, we all are.


    Download My Free Wellness Guide

    If you’re an overwhelmed woman looking for simple, realistic wellness habits that fit real life, I’d love to send you my free Wellness Guide.

    Wellness E Book Cover

    Inside you’ll discover:

    • simple wellness routines
    • hydration tips
    • stress-support habits
    • sleep-support ideas
    • plant-based wellness education
    • realistic strategies for busy women

    Download your free Wellness Guide today and start taking small steps toward feeling more like yourself again.

    In closing, for more on this subject; check out this blog post about 4 Kick Ace Ways to Bust Stress. For more holistic health strategies: check out this page full of solutions to different health and personal care challenges.

    I hope this gives you ideas how you too can reduce stress… naturally. Be blessed!

  • Rebounding Energy and Motivation Naturally After 40

    Rebounding Energy and Motivation Naturally After 40

    Why Have I Lost My Motivation and Energy? And Ways to Rebound Naturally

    Energy? Lacking. Motivation? Far gone. Here are Simple Ways to Support Your Body and Mind When You Feel Stuck

    Energy and Motivation? Say what?!?? Have you ever looked at your to-do list and thought: “I know what I should do… I just don’t have the energy to do it.” You aren’t alone.

    One of the most common struggles I hear from women over 40 is this: “I don’t feel like myself anymore.” They aren’t unmotivated, lacking discipline, and they aren’t lazy either. Typically, women our age are just exhausted. There is a huge difference!

    Many women spend years carrying:

    • careers
    • children
    • aging parents
    • financial responsibilities
    • household management
    • emotional labor
    • hormone changes
    • chronic stress
    • relationships
    Woman lacking energy and motivation

    Eventually the tank starts running low. The scary part? Many women assume they simply need to try harder. But often the issue isn’t motivation. It’s depletion.


    Motivation and Energy Are Not the Same Thing

    This may surprise you. Most people think motivation comes first. In reality, energy often comes first.

    When you’re:

    • exhausted
    • overwhelmed
    • stressed
    • under-slept
    • emotionally drained

    it’s difficult to feel motivated. Imagine trying to drive a car with no gas in the tank. That’s what many women are doing every day. They’re trying to create momentum from an empty tank. No wonder they feel stuck.


    Common Reasons Women Lose Motivation After 40

    There can be many reasons, including:

    • chronic stress
    • poor sleep
    • hormone fluctuations
    • decision fatigue
    • burnout
    • lack of movement
    • dehydration
    • blood sugar swings
    • emotional exhaustion
    • information overload

    Sometimes what feels like laziness is actually exhaustion. And exhaustion deserves support, not shame.


    5 Natural Ways to Support Motivation and Energy

    1. Stop Trying to Do Everything

    Many women are carrying enough responsibility for three people.

    One of the quickest ways to feel defeated is trying to tackle everything at once.

    Instead ask:

    “What is the next right thing?”

    Not:

    • next 20 things
    • next 50 things

    Just the next thing.

    Small wins build momentum.


    2. Move Before You Feel Like It

    This sounds backward. But waiting to feel motivated often doesn’t work. Movement creates momentum. I’ve started taking evening walks and it has increased my energy level exponentially. (Thank God!)

    Try:

    • a 10-minute walk
    • stretching
    • dancing to one song
    • a quick workout

    The goal is not perfection. The goal is movement. Action often creates motivation.


    3. Eat for Energy

    Many women accidentally fuel exhaustion.

    Examples:

    • coffee only
    • sugary breakfasts
    • skipping meals
    • grabbing processed snacks

    Instead focus on:

    • protein
    • healthy fats
    • fruits
    • vegetables
    • hydration

    Your body needs fuel.


    4. Reduce Decision Fatigue

    One reason I love systems is because they reduce mental clutter.

    Simple systems may include:

    • meal planning
    • weekly schedules
    • morning routines
    • evening routines
    • checklists

    Every decision you eliminate frees up mental energy. And mental energy matters.


    5. Celebrate Progress

    Many women are accomplishing amazing things but only focus on what’s left undone. Try ending each day by writing:

    Three things I did well today.

    That’s it.

    Momentum grows when we notice progress.


    Wellness Tools I Personally Enjoy

    As part of my wellness routine, I enjoy combining healthy lifestyle habits with supportive wellness products.

    These products are not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent disease.

    NingXia Red

    Many people enjoy NingXia Red as part of a daily wellness routine focused on nutrition and overall wellness support.

    NingXia Red Drink

    Super B

    B vitamins are commonly used as part of a healthy lifestyle focused on supporting energy production and overall wellness.


    Mineral Essence

    Hydration and mineral support are often overlooked when discussing energy and wellness.


    NingXia Nitro

    Many people enjoy NingXia Nitro as part of their morning routine when they need a little extra support for busy days.


    The Real Secret to Motivation

    The truth is:

    Most women don’t need more pressure. They need more support with extra grace and nurturing. Females like us tend to be so tough on ourselves. Self care, patience, and support go a very long way.

    More:

    • sleep
    • hydration
    • nourishment
    • movement
    • grace
    • healthy boundaries

    Less:

    • guilt
    • perfectionism
    • comparison
    • overwhelm

    Motivation is often a byproduct of feeling better. When your body has what it needs, showing up becomes easier.


    Final Thoughts

    Friend, if you’ve been feeling stuck lately, please know this:

    We sure aren’t lazy. We just might need to sleep a few more minutes in the morning, or squeeze in some self care here or there.

    My counselor has been telling me to say out loud to myself, “I am taking good care of you by eating this,” etc. By stating it out loud, I’ve noticed there is much more intention behind my actions.

    Try it. you might like it.

    Conclusion Recap:

    You may simply be carrying more than anyone realizes.

    Start small. Drink the water. Take the walk. Celebrate the win, no matter how small it might be. Build one simple habit at a time. Tiny steps create momentum. And momentum creates change. For more about Women’s Health, check out this post.

    Woman wondering why she's tired

    Download My Free Wellness Guide

    If you’re an overwhelmed woman looking for simple wellness habits that fit real life, I’d love to send you my free Wellness Guide.

    Inside you’ll discover:

    • stress-support habits
    • simple wellness routines
    • hydration tips
    • energy-support strategies
    • sleep-support ideas
    • realistic self-care for busy women

    Download your free Wellness Guide today and start taking small steps toward feeling more like yourself again.

  • Why Am I So Tired After I Sleep 8 Hours?

    Why Am I So Tired After I Sleep 8 Hours?

    Why Am I So Tired Even After Sleeping?

    The Hidden Reasons So Many Women Over 40 Feel Exhausted All the Time

    So Tired… Have you ever slept all night…

    …and STILL woke up feeling like you got hit by a bus?

    Yeah.
    Same.

    So many women over 40 are walking around absolutely exhausted right now.

    Not just “busy.”

    Deep-down tired.

    The kind of tired where:

    • coffee barely touches it
    • your body feels heavy
    • your brain feels foggy
    • you wake up exhausted
    • little tasks suddenly feel overwhelming


    Why Women Over 40 Often Feel Exhausted

    After 40, several things start shifting at once:

    • hormones fluctuate
    • sleep quality changes
    • stress increases
    • muscle mass decreases
    • blood sugar becomes more important
    • inflammation can rise
    • recovery slows down

    Add modern life on top of that:

    • screens
    • stress
    • processed foods
    • emotional overload
    • poor sleep habits
    • constant rushing

    …and eventually the body starts waving a white flag.


    Common Causes of Exhaustion

    Many women dealing with exhaustion may also be struggling with:

    • chronic stress
    • nervous system overload
    • poor sleep quality
    • blood sugar swings
    • dehydration
    • inflammation
    • hormone changes
    • too much caffeine
    • lack of movement
    • poor recovery habits

    Our bodies are asking for more support, grace, rest, and white space.


    Holistic Wellness Habits That May Help Support Energy Naturally

    1. Hydrate Before Coffee

    Many women wake up dehydrated and immediately reach for caffeine.

    Try:
    ✅ water first
    ✅ minerals/electrolytes
    ✅ hydration throughout the day

    Hydration supports:

    • circulation
    • energy
    • digestion
    • wellness
    • healthy body function

    2. Eat Protein Earlier in the Day

    Many women accidentally start the day with:

    • sugar
    • pastries
    • carbs
    • coffee only

    Protein may help support:

    • energy stability
    • fullness
    • blood sugar balance
    • reduced crashes

    Simple options:

    • eggs
    • protein smoothies
    • Greek yogurt
    • turkey sausage

    3. Reduce Nervous System Overload

    Many women are not just physically tired.

    They’re emotionally overloaded.

    Try:

    • stretching
    • walking
    • deep breathing
    • lower lights at night
    • less doom scrolling
    • short moments of quiet

    Tiny moments of calm matter more than people realize.


    4. Move Your Body Gently

    Movement supports:

    • circulation
    • mood
    • energy
    • sleep quality
    • stress reduction

    You do NOT need punishing workouts.

    Even:

    • walking
    • stretching
    • posture resets
    • light strength training

    can support wellness over time.


    Wellness Products I Personally Enjoy for Energy Support

    These products are not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent disease.


    NingXia Red

    Many people enjoy NingXia Red as part of a wellness-focused lifestyle for antioxidant and nutritional support.

    NingXia Red Drink

    Mineral Essence

    Mineral support may help support hydration and overall wellness habits. I know this is needed, I personally can’t stand the taste. I try to rub it on my feet. (Trying to be a good friend and share).


    Deep Relief Roll-On

    Many women enjoy Deep Relief after long stressful days filled with tension and screen time.


    Sleepyize

    Many people prioritize healthy evening routines and sleep-support habits as part of overall wellness support. I put this in my diffuser or rub it on my feet before bed, it is phenomenal! Hey, it’s safe for the kiddos too.


    Final Thoughts

    If you’ve been feeling exhausted lately…

    please know you are NOT alone.

    Many women are carrying:

    • stress
    • emotional overload
    • hormone shifts
    • poor recovery
    • nervous system exhaustion

    for years without realizing how much it impacts the body.

    Sometimes wellness starts with:

    • more water
    • more rest
    • more nourishment
    • more movement
    • less pressure
    • less perfection

    Tiny habits matter.

    And your body deserves support too.

    For more on this subject, check out my post about Winding Down at Night.


    Want My Free Wellness Guide?

    If you’d like my simple Wellness Guide for overwhelmed women over 40, Click HERE to download it and get started on a brand new path of greater wellness – naturally!

  • Why Women Over 40 Feel Puffy, Exhausted, and Stuck

    Why Women Over 40 Feel Puffy, Exhausted, and Stuck

    The Truth About Stress, Hormones, Inflammation, and Supporting Your Body Naturally

    Puffy? Exhausted? and Stuck? Does that describe you? Have you ever looked in the mirror and thought:

    “Why do I feel SO swollen, exhausted, and uncomfortable in my own body lately?”

    Not just tired.

    Heavy. Puffy. Inflamed. Overwhelmed. It doesn’t look healthy. It shows a deeper of issue of unhealth.

    Like your body is waving a tiny white flag while you continue pushing through life on caffeine and survival mode.

    If that sounds familiar… you are NOT alone.

    Many women over 40 notice:

    • stubborn belly fat – puffy
    • bloating – puffy
    • low energy – exhausted and stuck
    • brain fog – exhausted
    • poor sleep – exhausted and stuck
    • hormone changes
    • water retention
    • inflammation
    • sluggish digestion – puffy
    • feeling “off” no matter what they try

    Most women blame themselves. Haven’t we all had thoughts like, “I must be doing it wrong?” We try to exercise and eat well, but we still are puffy, exhausted, and stuck.


    Why Women Over 40 Often Feel “Stuck, and Puffy, and Exhausted.”

    After 40, several things start shifting at once:

    • hormones fluctuate
    • muscle mass naturally declines
    • stress often increases
    • sleep quality changes
    • metabolism slows
    • inflammation can rise
    • digestion may become sluggish
    • What a negative list, but there is hope!

    Add modern life on top of that:

    • processed foods
    • chronic stress
    • emotional overload
    • poor hydration
    • sitting too much
    • constant rushing

    …and many women begin feeling physically and emotionally weighed down (i.e. puffy, exhausted, and stuck). Sadly, the body keeps score.


    The Liver’s Role in Overall Wellness

    The liver is one of the hardest-working organs in the body. It is our strainer. The liver cleanses.

    It helps process:

    • hormones
    • nutrients
    • medications
    • alcohol
    • waste products
    • metabolic byproducts

    Your liver is already designed to naturally support the body’s detoxification processes. But healthy daily habits can help support the liver and overall wellness.

    This is why many wellness experts focus on:

    • hydration
    • nutrition
    • movement
    • stress reduction
    • sleep
    • digestion
    • reducing processed foods

    rather than extreme “detoxes” or crash cleanses.


    Signs Your Body May Need More Support

    Feeling tired or bloated does NOT automatically mean something is wrong with your liver.

    But many women dealing with chronic stress and metabolic overload may notice:

    • puffiness
    • sluggishness
    • fatigue
    • bloating
    • digestive discomfort
    • low motivation
    • brain fog
    • water retention
    • feeling inflamed
    • stubborn weight gain
    • These symptoms can be summed up with: puffy, exhausted, and stuck.

    These symptoms can have MANY causes, including:

    • stress
    • hormone shifts
    • poor sleep
    • insulin resistance
    • inflammation
    • digestive imbalance
    • burnout

    That’s why supporting the body holistically matters.


    What Is the Lymphatic System?

    One area many women are suddenly hearing about is the lymphatic system.

    The lymphatic system helps support:

    • fluid balance
    • immune function
    • circulation
    • movement of lymph fluid throughout the body

    Lymphatic Massage can help support less puffy, exhaustion, and the feeling of being stuck.

    Unlike the circulatory system, the lymphatic system does not have a pump like the heart.

    Movement helps it move.

    That’s one reason why habits like:

    • walking
    • stretching
    • hydration
    • deep breathing
    • exercise
    • massage

    may help support healthy lymphatic flow.


    What Is Lymphatic Massage?

    Lymphatic massage is a gentle massage technique designed to encourage movement of lymph fluid throughout the body.

    Some people report benefits like:

    • reduced puffiness
    • temporary reduction in water retention
    • relaxation
    • less heaviness
    • feeling lighter and refreshed

    Many women enjoy lymphatic massage as part of a broader wellness routine focused on:

    • stress reduction
    • circulation
    • hydration
    • movement
    • self-care


    Sometimes slowing down long enough to care for your body matters more than another extreme diet. In slowing down, I use a lymphatic facial massage brush.

    I also use movement to help my lymphatic system. My son gave me this amazing Vibration plate. It is fun. My thighs actually burn after 10 minutes on it as if I went on a difficult run.


    Wellness Habits That May Support the Body Naturally

    Most women do NOT need a dramatic cleanse.

    Most women need:

    • consistency
    • nourishment
    • hydration
    • sleep
    • stress support
    • movement
    • gentler wellness habits

    Here are a few simple ways many women support overall wellness naturally:


    1. Increase Hydration

    Hydration supports:

    • digestion
    • circulation
    • energy
    • bowel regularity
    • normal detoxification processes

    Many women are walking around chronically dehydrated without realizing it.


    2. Prioritize Protein and Fiber

    Protein and fiber may support:

    • blood sugar balance
    • metabolism
    • digestion
    • fullness
    • energy levels

    Think:

    • berries
    • vegetables
    • lean proteins
    • chia seeds
    • flaxseed
    • oats

    3. Move Your Body Daily

    Walking and strength training support:

    • circulation
    • metabolism
    • lymphatic movement
    • muscle health
    • stress reduction

    Even short walks matter.


    4. Support Stress Levels

    Chronic stress impacts:

    • hormones
    • digestion
    • inflammation
    • sleep
    • cortisol levels
    • overall wellness

    Your nervous system matters more than most people realize.


    Wellness Products I Personally Explored

    As part of my own wellness journey, I started paying closer attention to products that support digestion, hydration, antioxidants, and overall wellness.

    These products are not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent disease, but many people enjoy incorporating them into healthy lifestyle routines.


    JuvaCleanse Vitality

    JuvaCleanse Vitality is an essential oil blend often used by people interested in supporting healthy lifestyle habits and overall wellness routines. Many people incorporate it into wellness practices focused on digestion, hydration, and daily wellness support.

    • wellness support
    • part of hydration routines
    • mindful wellness habits
    • overall lifestyle support

    You could talk about adding it to water as part of a:

    “daily wellness reset routine.”


    Cleansing Trio Kit

    The Cleansing Trio Kit is designed to support individuals who want to focus on healthy habits, mindful eating, hydration, and overall wellness support as part of a balanced lifestyle.

    Many people pair wellness-focused routines with:

    • increased water intake
    • whole foods
    • movement
    • digestive support
    • stress management

    LiverTone Supplement

    LiverTone is a supplement blend designed to support overall wellness and healthy liver-support habits as part of a healthy lifestyle.

    Since the liver plays an important role in processing hormones, nutrients, and metabolic byproducts, many wellness-focused individuals prioritize habits that support healthy liver function naturally.

    • supporting healthy lifestyle habits
    • supporting overall wellness
    • part of a wellness-support routine

    Since the liver plays a role in:

    • hormone processing
    • metabolism
    • digestion
    • processing metabolic byproducts

    many women interested in wellness routines gravitate toward liver-support products.


    The Bigger Problem Nobody Talks About

    Women over 40 are carrying A LOT.

    Physically.
    Mentally.
    Emotionally.

    Most women are:

    • overstressed
    • underslept
    • overworked
    • emotionally exhausted
    • trying to care for everyone else first

    And eventually the body starts asking for support.

    Not punishment.
    Not another crash diet.
    Not shame.

    Support.


    Final Thoughts

    If you’ve been feeling:

    • puffy
    • exhausted
    • inflamed
    • overwhelmed
    • stuck in your body

    please know this: Small daily habits truly do add up over time.


    Want My Wellness Guide?

    If you’d like my simple Wellness Guide with:

    • healthy daily habits
    • hydration tips
    • digestive wellness support ideas
    • stress-support routines
    • wellness product education
    • simple lifestyle swaps

    Download it HERE.

    DOWNLOADABLE WELLNESS GUIDE

    For more along these lines, check out my other 40 Post HERE.

  • Why Am I So Tired Even After Sleeping? (For Moms Who Feel Drained All Day)

    Why Am I So Tired Even After Sleeping? (For Moms Who Feel Drained All Day)

    Tired? Let’s just say it out loud… You slept. Not perfectly.
    But enough. And yet…

    • You wake up tired
    • You hit a wall by 2pm
    • You feel like you need a nap just to survive dinner

    What is going on??

    So many mom friends wear “Tired,” like a badge of honor. In America, it feels like a pull to burn the candle at both ends. Hustle culture screams, “Jam, more into the day.”

    Have you noticed this or is it just me? Busy is another bragging right. My take is that if we are constantly on, no matter why rested is a rare commodity.


    The truth of the matter is…

    You’re not broken, definitely not a slacker…

    And no… you don’t just “need more sleep.”

    Something much deeper may be going on.

    Cough, cough: slow down. Read a book, rock in a rocking chair. Maybe even sip tea! Think of our grandparents and great grandparents generations. They weren’t stressed like this generation tends to be…


    Why you feel tired even after sleeping (big possibility)…

    Let’s keep this simple. There are usually 5 main reasons:


    1. Your body never actually relaxed. You may have slept…

    But your body stayed in stress mode all night. I think this one may just be an epidemic.

    This is the “tired but wired” cycle, the kind where you never get into the restorative rest our bodies need.

    Signs:

    Waking between 2:00-4:00am to. pee

    Waking to check your phone in the middle of the night, “Hello. Addiction?”

    Rolling around, slightly sleeping, while actively focusing thoughts on a real life matter…

    Research shows chronic stress can disrupt sleep quality
    —even if you’re technically asleep. Totally sucks. Been there, done that. Ugh.


    2. Blood sugar swings. If your blood sugar is all over the place:

    • you crash mid-day
    • you feel shaky or foggy
    • your energy is unstable

    This is HUGE for moms. Especially the ones who cram food in while driving, often do not get a whole meal, etc.

    Let me just say with a son with Type 1 Diabetes, protein is our friend in this situation. Protein helps stabilize blood sugar.


    3. Hormone shifts. Especially if you’re in:

    • your 30s
    • your 40s
    • or beyond

    Hormones can affect:

    • sleep quality
    • energy
    • mood

    Even subtle shifts can leave you feeling drained.

    Signs like:

    • Acne
    • Night sweats
    • Painful cycles
    • Awful PMS
    • Weight gain or loss for no reason
    • Difficulty maintaining warmth

    4. Poor sleep quality (not just quantity) – this is similar to the #1.

    You can sleep 8 hour…but if it’s broken, light, or restless?

    You wake up exhausted, sadly. According to sleep research, quality matters more than just hours.

    A 2016 review published in the journal Sleep stated:

    “Sleep quality may be just as important, if not more important, than sleep duration in predicting future health.” 


    5. No daily rhythm

    Your body LOVES patterns. But most of us are:

    • skipping meals
    • staying up late
    • overstimulated all day
    • differing bed times and wake times
    • grazing throughout the day

    No rhythm = no steady energy


    Quick reality check (this matters)

    • Over 60% of women report ongoing fatigue
    • Sleep issues affect millions of adults regularly
    • Stress is one of the top contributors to poor energy

    👉 You are not alone in this.


    So what actually helps?

    Not a 27-step routine. Not more supplements thrown at the problem.

    You need: simple daily signals your body can recognize.


    Start with THIS (simple shift)

    Before you try to “fix your whole life”… Start with your evening. Because if your body never winds down… tomorrow will feel the same.


    ✨ 3 simple things to try tonight

    1. Lower stimulation before bed

    • dim lights
    • put your phone away
    • reduce noise

    2. Give your body a calming signal

    This is where I personally use
    Young Living Stress Away or Peace and Calming

    They aren’t a magic fix…. Just as a consistent cue, that, “We’re done for the day.”


    3. Clear your brain

    Write down:

    • your top 3 priorities for tomorrow

    That’s it.


    💡 Why this works

    Your body responds to patterns.

    When you repeat the same signals:

    • your brain learns to relax faster
    • your sleep improves
    • your energy improves

    FAQ (quick answers)

    Why am I tired even after 8 hours of sleep?

    Because sleep quality, stress, and hormones matter more than just hours.


    Can stress really make me this tired?

    Yes. Chronic stress can impact sleep, energy, and mood.


    Is this a hormone problem?

    Sometimes. Especially in perimenopause or menopause.


    Do I need supplements?

    Not always.

    Start with:

    • sleep
    • rhythm
    • stress support

    Then layer in support if needed.


    Will this fix everything overnight?

    No.

    But it will start shifting things in the right direction.

    Essential Oils for Stress, Sleep & Feeling Tired. FAQs


    Do essential oils actually help with stress and relaxation?

    They can support relaxation as part of a routine.

    Certain scents (like lavender) have been studied for their calming effects, and many people use essential oils as a sensory cue to help the body wind down.

    👉 They’re not a treatment or cure
    👉 But they can be a helpful tool alongside good habits


    How do essential oils help you relax?

    Your sense of smell is directly connected to the part of your brain that processes emotion and memory.

    That means:

    👉 when you pair a calming scent with a routine
    👉 your brain starts to associate that scent with “time to relax”

    Over time, this can help your body shift into a calmer state more easily.

    How smells affect our brain

    Where should I apply essential oils for stress support?

    Most people use diluted oils on:

    • wrists
    • back of neck
    • shoulders
    • chest (upper area)

    👉 Avoid eyes, face, and sensitive areas
    👉 Always follow proper dilution guidelines

    Woman smelling where brain lights up

    Can I use essential oils without applying them to my skin?

    Yes.

    Many people prefer:

    Diffusing is especially helpful for creating a calm environment at night.


    Should I use essential oils every night?

    Consistency matters more than intensity.

    Using the same scent regularly can help your body recognize:

    👉 “this is my wind-down time”

    Many people use oils nightly as part of a simple routine.


    Is it safe to use oils undiluted (“neat”)?

    It’s generally safer to dilute.

    Undiluted oils can:

    • irritate skin
    • increase sensitivity over time

    👉 A carrier oil (like coconut oil) is a good option
    👉 Patch testing is always smart


    What if I have a reaction to an oil?

    Stop using it.

    • wash the area gently
    • avoid reapplying
    • monitor symptoms

    If irritation continues or worsens, contact a healthcare professional.


    Are essential oils enough to fix my sleep or stress?

    No. But, they can be a huge support! Everyone who uses essential oils and holistic products have different experiences and stories to tell.

    They work best as part of a system, not a standalone fix.

    Think of them as:

    👉 a support tool
    👉 not the whole solution


    Which essential oils are best for relaxation?

    Many people reach for calming oils like:

    The best one is the one you will use consistently.


    Person smelling internal view

    De-Stress Toolbox (Simple + Real-Life)

    This is your “keep it simple” system. Simple gets done much more often than complicated.

    Just tools that support your body.


    Your Simple De-Stress Routine

    1. Evening signal (non-negotiable)

    Use a calming scent at the same time each night.

    I personally use:
    Young Living Stress Away
    or
    Peace and Calming.

    👉 This becomes your body’s “we’re done” signal


    2. Diffuser at night

    Add a few drops to a diffuser while you wind down.

    Helps:

    • create a calm environment
    • reduce stimulation
    • support routine consistency

    3. On-the-go reset

    Keep a roller with you.

    Apply to:

    • wrists
    • neck

    Take a slow breath.

    👉 Quick reset during stressful moments


    4. Pair with simple habits

    This is where most people miss it.

    Use oils WITH:

    • dim lights
    • less screen time
    • slow breathing
    • writing tomorrow’s top 3 tasks

    👉 That combo is what works


    5. Keep it consistent

    Don’t switch oils every night.

    Pick one.

    Stick with it.

    Let your body learn the pattern.


    In Conclusion

    You don’t need a brand new life to feel better. For goodness sake, make the most of the Beautiful, Loving Life you have been given. Savor each day because truly it is a gift. In addition to gratitude,

    You need:

    • small systems
    • repeated daily
    • that your body can trust

    Want help getting started?

    I made this super simple.

    👉 A 5-Minute Evening Reset for Stressed Moms

    So you don’t have to think at night.

    Just follow it.

    Download it HERE.


    Or comment RESET and I’ll send it to you.


    ⚠️ Disclaimer

    This is for general wellness support and is not medical advice.

    Final Word of Encouragement

    Friends, life can be fast moving! I still can’t believe most of my kids are adults.

    Let’s take the time to really wind down at night. Take a bath. Read the book. Put on a fan (this helps me sleep so much). Fill the diffuser before turning off the lights.

    Life is so much sweeter when we are rested. Joy fills my heart much more when I’m not battling fatigue.

    Invest in our futures by getting proper rest. The best is yet to be together: you and me. We are stronger, together. Better: together.

    Major Study on Sleep Regularity + Longer Life

    A 2024 study published in the journal Sleep found that:

    Sleep regularity was a stronger predictor of mortality risk than sleep duration.

    In plain English:

    People with more regular, higher-quality sleep patterns tended to live longer than people with irregular sleep schedules.

    Adults with regular sleep schedules and sufficient sleep had a 39% lower mortality risk than people with irregular and insufficient sleep. 

    For more on this subject, check out: THIS POST. Thanks for you stopping by today.

    Talk soon,

    Jenn

  • A Simple Evening Routine for Stressed Moms (When Your Brain Won’t Shut Off)

    A Simple Evening Routine for Stressed Moms (When Your Brain Won’t Shut Off)

    Stress Away? Stress: Let’s just call it what it is…

    We finally sit down at night…
    and instead of relaxing…

    Our brain is like:

    “Hey. Now that you’re still…
    let’s replay everything you didn’t finish today.”

    or

    “Hey, let’s rethink every conversation from every angle.”

    Cool. Love that for us.


    The truth of the matter is…

    We aren’t bad at relaxing,

    We are just overloaded, over stimulated, over responsible.

    All. Day. Long.

    We are:

    • answering questions
    • solving problems
    • breaking up fights
    • remembering everything for everyone
    • and somehow still trying to drink water and be a kind human

    It’s a lot.

    So when the house gets quiet?

    Our body is tired…
    but our brain is still clocked in. Sadly.


    So what do we actually do about it?

    Not a 27-step routine.

    Not something you’ll quit in 2 days.

    We’re doing a 5-minute evening routine for stressed moms
    that actually fits real life.

    Messy life. Loud life. Mom life.


    🌙 Your 5-Minute Reset (real life version)

    1. Turn the world down (1 minute)

    No big speech here.

    Just:

    • turn off bright lights
    • put your phone on silent
    • stop the input

    We are basically telling our brain:

    “The show is over. Go home.”


    2. Give your body a signal (1 minute)

    Your body needs a cue that it’s safe to relax.

    This is where I personally use
    Young Living Stress Away

    Not because it’s magic.

    But because it’s consistent.

    • roll it on wrists
    • smell it
    • take a slow breath

    Done.

    It becomes your brain’s little signal of:

    “Oh… we’re winding down now.”


    3. Fix your shoulders (because… yikes) (1–2 minutes)

    Be honest…

    Your shoulders are somewhere near your ears right now, aren’t they?

    Try this:

    • roll them back slowly
    • stretch your neck side to side
    • unclench your jaw (this one gets me every time)

    You’re not working out.

    You’re just telling your body:

    “You can let go now.”


    4. Get tomorrow out of your head (1 minute)

    THIS is the big one.

    Grab anything — notebook, receipt, random paper.

    Write down:

    • your top 3 priorities for tomorrow

    Not 15.

    Not your entire life plan.

    Just 3.

    Because your brain doesn’t need more pressure…
    it needs closure.


    5. Finally, Sit like a normal human (30 seconds)

    No phone.

    No scrolling.

    No “just one more thing.”

    Just sit.

    I know… groundbreaking.

    But this is where your body actually catches up.

    Awe, doesn’t this feel better?


    Why this works (and why most routines don’t)

    Because this isn’t about becoming a different person.

    This is about giving your nervous system a pattern.

    Same steps. Same order. Same signal.

    After a few nights, your brain starts to recognize:

    “Oh… this means we’re done.”

    And THAT is when you finally start to relax at night as a mom.


    Let’s talk about the oil real quick

    You don’t need anything fancy to do this.

    You really don’t.

    But…

    Scent is one of the fastest ways to calm your body.

    That’s why I use Young Living Stress Away

    Not as a miracle.

    Just as a simple, repeatable cue.

    And honestly?

    As moms… we need simple. I used this oil in my mini mom mobile vents when the kids were all crying waiting in the drive through line. It’s a keeper!


    If you’re overwhelmed right now…

    Start tonight.

    Not Monday.
    Not when life slows down (lol… right).

    Tonight.

    Even if you only do 2 steps.

    Even if your kids interrupt you 3 times.

    Even if it’s messy.

    Progress over perfect. Always.

    My tid bit: I don’t do this wind down routine anymore. Nope. I just put oils on my feet and in my diffuser, and that’s all she wrote: I am out – for the count.

    Even with menopause, now post menopause – I sleep hard, and good!


    Want this in a super simple cheat sheet?

    Because I know you don’t want to remember all this at 9:47pm 🙂

    I made a quick “Evening Reset” you can follow step-by-step.

    Grab it here:

    Or comment RESET and I’ll send it to you.


    Final thought

    You don’t need a new life to feel better, your sweet life here and now is better than you know.

    You need small systems that work inside your current life.

    This is one of them.

    And the best part?

    It takes less time than scrolling your phone.

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