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You Didn’t Fail. You Were Overwhelmed.
You Didn’t Fail

We didn’t fail. We are all just overwhelmed at times. So many choices to choose from. Too many shiny objects glistening for our attention. It brings confusion, self doubt, and the question, “Is that going to be better than what I have?”

If you’ve spent money trying to figure out how to make money online…

and it still hasn’t worked…

I need you to hear this:

You didn’t fail.

You were overwhelmed. And to this I say, “Me too.” Been there. Done that.

You Didn’t Fail at Trying

You tried to follow programs and “solutions” that:

required more time than you have

expected more energy than you can give

and assumed your life was quieter than it actually is

not to mention, you’d make way more money faster than even came close to being reality.

Ouch.

I know it hurts. Getting zero back from thousands invested stings.

That’s not your fault.

That’s a mismatch.

(And honestly, there may be a method to get what you’ve invested back many times over. Stick around for more on that later. If you are really curious: message me any time.)

You Didn’t Fail at Programs

Most programs are built for people who can:

sit and focus for hours

test things all day

think strategically without interruption

(These aren’t real people. At least not moms with little kids and lives outside of their phones and laptops.)

That’s not most moms (none that I know)!

Fail? And Get Back Up – Smarter. Stronger.

So what happens?

You try.
You get inconsistent.
You feel behind.
You start to question yourself.

Insert the snow ball effect. The lapses keep compounding until quitting is the easiest or even just putting the “course” in the background and moving forward. Sound familiar?

But here’s the truth:

You don’t need another course.

You need:

fewer steps

clearer direction (clarity is crucial)

something you can repeat on your hardest day

And here is where we try again with our new smarts and strengths.

Failing To Simplify

I’m talking about something simple enough to follow even when you’re tired.

Simple strategies that make it easy to operate even on hard days. Think simple checklists, Daily Mission Operations, with emphasis on Income Producing Activities. Imagine waking up with clarity, knowing exactly what to do!

Succeeding with Simple!

That’s what I’m building right now.

Not perfect.
Not fancy.

Just real systems that work in real life. This isn’t fluff. If you’d like I will send you a simple list of 10 systems the simply implement today.

And if you’re still here… still trying…

That means something. You’re not done. You just haven’t had the right structure yet.

Stay.

We’ll figure it out together. I have ideas galore and if they worked for me: a single mom with 4 kids, (three that needed extra help)… you can do it too.

So stick around. The BEST is yet to come! Questions? Put them in the comments below. I’m here for you.

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April 6, 2026
3 Sneaky Ways to Make Time For Personal Development
3 Sneaky Ways to Make Time For Personal Development

Personal development?!? Nobody has time for that, or do WE? Alright, mamas! Let’s be real. Between the school runs, the endless snack requests, the mystery stains that appear on EVERYTHING, and the sheer exhaustion that rivals running a marathon in flip-flops, the idea of “personal development” probably sounds about as appealing as folding fitted sheets. Like, where in the actual heck are we supposed to find the time to become our best selves when we’re just trying to make sure everyone has clean underwear?

But hold up! What if I told you that you don’t need a silent retreat in the Himalayas (though, wouldn’t that be nice?) to actually grow and evolve? Nope. We’re talking about sneaky, efficient ways to squeeze in some brain-boosting and soul-soothing amidst the beautiful chaos that is motherhood with plenty of dream building personal development.

I find so many women are on auto-pilot. “Zombie Mombie,” it is. From aimlessly folding laundry, endlessly cleaning the kitchen (who knew this would be every. single. day.?!!), changing diapers like nascar does a pit stop; you get this picture! Moms tend to be in a rut. Women in general can sink into the quick sand of mundane life ever so quickly.

There is a quick fix! A beacon of hope that shines for every worn out momma to help her straighten up, and walk with more value and focus. What is this magic potion I speak of? There are many. But for today, I want to coax you into the world of sneaking personal development into our lives. This won’t take hours!

I’m talking about listening to these goodies while doing our hair, while doing dishes, while folding laundry, even while using the facilities! We can squeeze (see what I did there? #pottyhumor) personal development into our lives easily. It can make mundane tasks so much more purposeful and even enjoyable.

Personal development helps me see past today. It aids me to dream of days in the near future. Personal development makes me have fresh perspective, making daily routines more productive. I learn new ways of thinking, talking, and more. Are you ready?

So, grab your lukewarm coffee (because #momlife), maybe hide in the bathroom for five minutes (no judgment here), and let’s dive into three ridiculously easy ways busy moms can maximize their personal development (while driving, walking the baby or dog… during almost every single task):

1. Tune In, Turn Up (Your Brainpower!): The Magic of Audio

Remember those blissful pre-kid days when you could actually read a book? Yeah, me neither. But fear not, bookworms and knowledge-seekers! Enter the glorious world of audio. (I vaguely remember when I could read a long book in a day! Can you imagine the delight?! Maybe you still experience this? If so, please for the love of all that’s pure, share HOW you do that!!). I, personally, wear my audio apps out. My favorite is:
- Audible is Your New Best Friend: Seriously. This isn’t an ad (though, hey Audible, call me!). Think of Audible as your personal development fairy godmother. You can listen to incredible personal development books, inspiring biographies, or even learn a new language while you’re picking up toys (because multitasking is our superpower, right?), driving the carpool (captive audience!), or even during those rare quiet moments when you’re just trying to pee in peace. Plus, the narrators often have soothing voices that might just lull you into a brief moment of zen. Bonus!
I do listen to Audible at 1.2 speed generally. This helps me to absorb more, quicker. Try it, you might like it as well!
- Books that have fired me up so far this year include:
- You might wonder why I am listening to books such as these. Well, friends – I am determined to spend my days serving the homeless, making disciples, and impacting the world. So I keep studying these subjects, taking action to one day be able to make a big income, reaching my full potential. You can too! Let’s grow together. Please see: Bestlifewithjenn.com.
2. Podcast Power: Tiny Bites of Brilliance for Your Ears

Podcasts are like mini-mentors you can carry around in your pocket. There’s a podcast for literally everything, including a plethora of amazing personal development podcasts aimed at helping you grow, learn, and feel a little less like a frazzled mess.
- Find Your Tribe (and Their Wisdom): Whether you’re into mindset shifts, productivity hacks, or just needing a good dose of inspiration, there’s a podcast out there for you. Subscribe to a few that resonate and listen while you’re doing dishes, going for a walk (if that ever happens!), or even during that glorious 10 minutes of quiet before the kids realize you’re not actually asleep.
  - Pro Tip: Speed up the playback! We’re efficient, remember?
  - Podcasts that light up my life include:- Mel Robbins (who doesn’t not love her?)
  - – Dr. Caroline Leaf (always makes me think, deeply)
  - – Raised to Stay (never disappoints – yay Natalie Runion)–
  - Lastly, this stellar quick dose of the Holy Ghost: Lectio Divina (all way eternal deposits are made)
3. Scroll with Purpose: Injecting Positivity into Your Feed

Social media can feel like a black hole of perfectly curated lives and endless comparisons. But what if we flipped the script? What if your scroll time actually nourished your soul?
- Follow the Feel-Good Folks: Unfollow accounts that make you feel inadequate (bye, bye perfectly filtered makeup models!). Instead, intentionally seek out and follow positive influencers on social media who share inspiring messages, practical tips, and relatable content. Look for accounts that focus on mindset, self-care, motivation, and personal growth. A little dose of positivity and wisdom in your daily scroll can make a surprisingly big difference.
  - Remember: Authenticity is key. Find influencers who feel real and relatable to your journey.
  - Influencers who make me smile, inspiring me always:
  - – Lisa Bevere
  - – Lisa Harper
  - – Teri Savelle
  - – Natalie Runion
The Bottom Line (and a Little Encouragement)

Mama, you are a rockstar. You’re juggling approximately one million things at once, and the fact that you’re even thinking about personal development amidst all that deserves a gold medal (and maybe a nap). Remember, it doesn’t have to be hours of intense study. Small, consistent efforts can lead to big growth over time.

Bonus Tip: This makes four, but oh well. It’s a good one to keep in mind! We can listen to YouVersion! Yep! We can listen to it read the Bible to us. Some of the devotionals can be narrated aloud as well. Check it out! This is definitely my daily pocket fuel.

Speaking of pocket fuel, for more information; check out my favorite books of 2024. You can’t go wrong with any of these. They will help you thrive in life! 100%! PS, you could listen to these books on Audible as well. You might LOVE it!

If my favorite books from last year wasn’t enough. Read THIS POST about my favorite books of all time. Yes, listen to these on Audible too!

In closing, I will be vulnerable: the minute I do not make time for personal development, I get stagnant. Stagnant stuff stinks and decays. When I make time for developing myself, I smile brighter and more often. I also enjoy life a whole lot more. Please join me in making this a priority. Proverbs 29:18 says essentially that people die or cast off restraint without vision. Taking time for self development keeps my vision clear. Life makes more sense with this stream of wisdom saturating my life. I bet it perks you up too.

Now it’s your turn! How do YOU sneak in those precious moments for personal development amidst the beautiful chaos of motherhood? Share your tips and tricks in the comments below – we’re all in this together! #bettertogether #strongertogether

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April 22, 2025
The Ultimate Self-Care Arsenal: Your New Best Friends!

The Ultimate Self-Care Arsenal: Your New Best Friends!

Hey, lovely ladies! 🌟

Self-care helps us greatly in so many ways. Let’s be real, we all deserve a little pampering. Whether you’re a busy mom, a boss babe, or just someone who loves to binge-watch Netflix in sweats (no judgment here!), I’ve got a lineup of tremendous treasures and lotions that will have you feeling like the queen you are. So grab your favorite beverage (it’s always coffee time), and let’s dive in!

1. Self-Care Lume Bath wash: The Freshness You Didn’t Know You Needed

The ultimate all over self-care… First up, we have Lume Bath wash. Now, I know what you might be thinking: “Bath wash? Really?” But hear me out! This isn’t just any bath wash; it’s like a party for your skin! With Lume, you get to cleanse yourself while smelling like a delicious treat—think cookies or fresh flowers, not gym socks or taco meat.

And the best part? It’s pH balanced, which means you won’t feel like you’ve just walked through a desert after your shower. Trust me, your skin will thank you, and you’ll feel fresher than a daisy! Plus, you can strut around feeling like you just stepped out of a luxurious spa instead of your tiny bathroom. Even the unmentionables smell wonderful. =)

Woman in bathtub washing her face.

And on those days that include yard work, hikes, hot-sticky rooms with no air movement (and no time to shower): I keep this little friend on hand… Lume deodorant. It comes in small travel size bottles. I keep the travel size containers close at hand. Big bottles stay in my house. We can’t go wrong with these! I smell fresh for days.

2. Pampered Nivea Firming Cream: Because Gravity Is Not Our Friend

Another great self-care remedy, next on the list is Nivea Firming Cream. Let’s face it, as we age, gravity becomes a real buzzkill. This cream is like a personal trainer for your skin, minus the sweat and awkward gym encounters. Packed with ingredients that actually work, it’ll help firm up all those areas.

woman pouring lotion into hand

Just a little dab, and you’ll feel like you’re getting a mini lift without needing to book a flight or break the bank. So go ahead, slather it on and strut confidently like you own the place! (Bonus points if you do a little hair flip.)

3. Self-Care – Castor Oil: For Lush Lashes That Could Stop Traffic

Self-care quickly is the name of this game. Ladies, if you’re looking to take your lashes to the next level, let me introduce you to the wonder that is castor oil. Yep, that’s right! This treasure is not just for your grandma’s homemade remedies. Just a little swipe on your lashes before bed, and you’ll wake up with lashes so long and luscious they could make even the most famous Instagram models envious.

And let’s be honest, who doesn’t want to bat those lashes and get a little extra attention? Just remember to apply it sparingly—no one wants to accidentally give off a “spider legs” vibe! I also rub the extra into areas of my body that are a little too “jello jiggly.” The Castor Oil helps firm and tame stretch marks as well. Bazinga!

4. Self-Care Apple Cider Vinegar: The Bloating Buster

Lastly edible self-care, let’s talk about the sometimes-awkward topic of bloating. If you’re like me, you sometimes feel like a balloon after a heavy meal. Enter apple cider vinegar, your new best friend in the battle against bloat!

A splash in your water (preferably not straight from the bottle unless you enjoy the taste of vinegar—bless your soul if you do) can help you feel lighter and more comfortable. I fill up a glass of water about half way full, add a splash of Apple Cider Vinegar, and add a few drops of Young Living’s Vitality Lemon Essential Oil. It helps it taste better. The lemon is great for the kidney’s. Winner! Winner!

Product Wrap-Up

So there you have it—your self-care arsenal ready to tackle whatever life throws at you. With Lume Bath wash for freshness, Nivea Firming Cream for a little lift, castor oil for those jaw-dropping lashes, and apple cider vinegar to keep the bloat at bay, you’re all set to conquer the world!

Now go on, treat yourself, and remember: self-care isn’t selfish; it’s essential. You deserve it, darling! 💖

What are your go-to self-care products? Share in the comments! I would LOVE to try your suggestions.

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For more about Self-care, check out this blog about Stress Busting 101 and How to Cultivate Emotional Resilience.

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October 13, 2024

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