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  • How Can I Help My Child’s Tummy Ache Naturally?

    How Can I Help My Child’s Tummy Ache Naturally?

    Simple Comfort Measures for Little Tummies

    “Mooooom. My tummy hurts.”

    Four words that can mean approximately 847 different things.

    Are you hungry?

    Do you need to poop?

    Did you eat seventeen handfuls of cheese crackers?

    Are you nervous about school tomorrow?

    Or are we actually getting sick?

    Welcome to motherhood. 😂

    If you’re wondering how to help your child’s upset tummy naturally, there are several simple comfort measures you can try at home.

    I like starting with the basics—hydration, rest, warmth, gentle foods and figuring out what might be causing the discomfort.

    And because natural wellness is part of our family’s routine, I’ll also show you a couple of the Young Living products I like keeping in my Mom Toolkit for those inevitable “my tummy hurts” moments.


    Why Does My Child Keep Saying Their Stomach Hurts?

    Before reaching for anything, I like to play detective.

    An upset tummy in children can have lots of possible causes, including:

    • Constipation
    • Gas
    • Eating too much
    • Eating too quickly
    • A stomach virus
    • Food sensitivities
    • Hunger
    • Dehydration
    • Stress or anxiety
    • Changes in routine

    Sometimes the answer is obvious.

    Other times?

    Good luck, Sherlock Mom.

    The important thing is to pay attention to your child’s overall behavior and symptoms, not just the words “my stomach hurts.”

    If they’re otherwise acting normally and the discomfort is mild, I usually start with some simple comfort measures.

    1. Start With Hydration

    This is one of the simplest places to begin.

    Offer small, frequent sips of water rather than encouraging your child to gulp a huge amount at once.

    If they’ve been vomiting or have diarrhea, ask your healthcare professional about an appropriate oral rehydration solution, particularly for younger children.

    And don’t underestimate dehydration.

    Sometimes a little body simply needs fluids.

    2. Don’t Force Food

    I know.

    We’re moms.

    Feeding people is practically part of the job description.

    But if your child’s stomach is upset and they don’t want to eat, you don’t necessarily need to push a big meal.

    When they’re ready for food, try simple foods they normally tolerate well.

    Depending on the child, that might include things such as:

    • Toast
    • Rice
    • Banana
    • Applesauce
    • Crackers
    • Soup
    • Potatoes
    • Oatmeal

    Follow your child’s appetite and your pediatrician’s recommendations.

    The goal isn’t to create the world’s most nutritionally impressive dinner while somebody feels like they’re going to throw up.

    Simple is okay.

    Upset Tummy

    3. Try a Little Warmth

    This is one of my favorite old-fashioned Mom tricks.

    A warm compress or heating pad on a low, comfortable setting with supervision can sometimes be comforting for tummy aches or cramping.

    There’s just something about warmth. My mom always gave me the heating jug.

    Add a blanket, couch and Mom cuddles and suddenly we’ve created the Ritz-Carlton of stomachaches.

    4. Ask the Question Nobody Wants to Ask

    When did you poop last?

    😂

    I’m serious.

    Constipation is a common cause of abdominal pain in children.

    Pay attention to whether your child has been having regular bowel movements and whether stools are hard or painful to pass.

    Water, movement and fiber-rich foods can support normal bowel habits, but persistent or significant constipation is something to discuss with your child’s healthcare provider.

    Apparently motherhood includes keeping track of everyone’s poop.

    Nobody mentioned that in the brochure.

    5. Encourage Gentle Movement

    If your child feels up to it, a little gentle movement can sometimes be helpful.

    Nothing crazy.

    We’re not doing CrossFit in the living room.

    A short walk around the house, stretching or simply changing positions may help them feel more comfortable, especially when gas or constipation could be contributing.

    If movement makes the pain significantly worse, however, pay attention to that and contact their healthcare professional if you’re concerned.

    6. Remember That Worry Can Hurt a Tummy Too

    This one is easy to overlook.

    Kids don’t always say:

    “Mother, I appear to be experiencing anxiety.”

    They say:

    “My stomach hurts.”

    Big feelings can show up physically.

    School worries.

    Friend problems.

    A test tomorrow.

    Changes at home.

    Overstimulation.

    Something scary they saw.

    Even excitement can create butterflies and tummy discomfort.

    If the stomachache seems to appear around particular situations, gently ask:

    “Is anything worrying you?”

    Sometimes the tummy needs comfort.

    Sometimes the kid needs comfort.

    And sometimes it’s both.

    7. Create a Calm Environment

    When kids don’t feel well, I like turning everything down a notch.

    Dim the lights.

    Lower the television.

    Bring out the favorite blanket.

    Offer water.

    Put away the chaos for a little while.

    Read together.

    Cuddle.

    Let their body rest.

    We can’t control everything happening inside their little bodies, but we can make the environment around them feel safe and calm.


    What’s in My Young Living Mom Toolkit for Little Tummies?

    This is where natural living fits into our house.

    I don’t expect an essential oil to diagnose what’s causing a stomachache, and I’m certainly not using one instead of medical care when my child needs it.

    But I do love having simple products around that can become part of our comfort routine.

    And one of my favorites for kids is:

    KidScents TummyGize

    Young Living’s KidScents TummyGize is specifically formulated with children in mind.

    The blend contains essential oils including:

    • Spearmint
    • Peppermint
    • Tangerine
    • Fennel
    • Anise
    • Ginger
    • Cardamom

    Young Living describes TummyGize as having a naturally comforting aroma for tiny tummies. (It’s under $20)!!

    There’s also a TummyGize Roll-On, which I particularly like because it’s already diluted and easy to use.

    Because when a child is saying,

    “Mom. My tummy hurts. Mom. Mom. MOM.”

    I’m personally not interested in locating three bottles, measuring carrier oil and conducting a chemistry experiment. 😂

    Roll. Done. Mom wins.

    For the current U.S. KidScents products, Young Living recommends TummyGize for children ages 2–12. Always follow the current label directions and supervise use.

    What About DiGize?

    This is another Young Living product you’ll hear me talk about.

    DiGize contains essential oils including:

    • Tarragon
    • Ginger
    • Peppermint
    • Juniper
    • Fennel
    • Lemongrass
    • Anise
    • Patchouli

    Young Living describes DiGize as providing a comforting aromatic experience when applied topically according to label directions. It’s also less than $20.00!

    I think of TummyGize as my kid-focused option and DiGize as another product I like having in the family wellness cabinet for appropriate use.

    Again, essential oils aren’t my substitute for figuring out why someone’s stomach hurts.

    They’re one piece of my overall natural wellness routine.


    When Should I Call the Doctor About My Child’s Stomach Pain?

    This part matters.

    Most parents develop a pretty impressive internal alarm system.

    You know the difference between:

    “My tummy feels funny.”

    and

    “Something isn’t right with my child.”

    Seek medical advice promptly if your child has symptoms such as:

    • Severe or worsening abdominal pain
    • A hard, swollen or very tender abdomen
    • Persistent vomiting
    • Blood in vomit or stool
    • Signs of dehydration
    • Difficulty breathing
    • Unusual weakness, confusion or difficulty waking
    • A concerning fever
    • Pain that continues or repeatedly returns
    • Or your child simply seems significantly sicker than usual

    And when your Mom Radar is screaming at you?

    Listen to it.

    Upset tummy: when to call the doctor

    I’d much rather have a medical professional tell me everything looks okay than ignore something important.

    Natural living and modern medicine don’t have to be enemies.

    I use both.


    My Simple Upset-Tummy Routine

    For an ordinary mild tummy ache without concerning symptoms, my approach is pretty simple:

    Small sips of water.

    Don’t force food.

    Warmth.

    Check the poop situation.

    Gentle movement if appropriate.

    Ask about worries.

    Create a calm environment.

    Use age-appropriate Mom Toolkit products according to their directions.

    And then watch.

    Sometimes the best thing we can give our kids is simply a little time, comfort and Mom.

    Upset tummy routine

    Want to Know What’s in My Mom Toolkit?

    After raising kids, I’ve learned something:

    You don’t want to start figuring out what you need after somebody starts yelling,

    “MOOOOOM!”

    That’s why I created my Mom Toolkit.

    It’s a simple guide to some of the things I like having around for those everyday family moments—little tummies, sniffly seasons, bedtime struggles, boo-boos and those days when everybody needs a little extra TLC.

    Download Jenn’s FREE Mom Toolkit

    Inside, I’ll show you some of my favorite Young Living products, what I keep them around for, and how I fit them into our family’s everyday routines.

    No hype.

    No buying 47 bottles because somebody on the internet told you to.

    No pretending essential oils replace your pediatrician.

    Just one mom showing another mom:

    “Here’s what I like keeping in my cabinet. Take what helps you.”

    → DOWNLOAD MY FREE MOM TOOLKIT

    Start small.

    Build your toolkit as you go.

    And hopefully the next time you hear…

    “Mooooom. My tummy hurts.”

    …you’ll already have a few ideas.


    This article is for educational purposes only and isn’t medical advice. Essential oils and Young Living products are not intended to diagnose, treat, cure or prevent disease. Always follow current product labels, age recommendations and usage directions. Contact your child’s healthcare professional with questions about symptoms, medical conditions or appropriate treatment.

    PS. Here is my whole alternative arsenal that I keep for upset tummies. See what is right for you.

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  • Reduce Stress Naturally

    Reduce Stress Naturally

    How to Reduce Stress Naturally When Life Feels Like Too Much

    Reduce Stress? Simple Wellness Habits for Overwhelmed Women Over 40

    Woman stressed with baby sitting on counter of kitchen

    Stress? Do you ever feel like you’re carrying the weight of the world on your shoulders?

    Not just physically, but mentally, emotionally, and spiritually. You wake up tired, pushing through the day and still taking care of everyone else. Then you crawl into bed wondering why you feel so exhausted, overwhelmed, and unlike yourself.

    If that sounds familiar, friend, you are not alone. This is a WE issue. We all deal with the same things, even putting our pants on the same way – ha! Let’s find how to reduce stress naturally.

    Many women over 40 are carrying more responsibility than ever before:

    • raising children
    • caring for aging parents
    • managing careers
    • handling finances
    • supporting family members
    • navigating hormone changes
    • trying to stay healthy
    • balance online friends
    • keeping up with extended family
    • so many plates, in the air, at the same time.

    It’s a lot. So much for one person to carry.

    The good news is that stress doesn’t have to run the show. While we can’t eliminate every challenge in life, there are simple ways to support the body and mind naturally.

    Let’s talk about them.


    What Stress Can Look Like in Women Over 40 (Reducing Stress Naturally)

    Stress doesn’t always show up as feeling anxious. Sometimes it looks like:

    • exhaustion
    • brain fog
    • irritability
    • tension headaches
    • neck and shoulder tightness
    • poor sleep
    • sugar cravings
    • low motivation
    • feeling overwhelmed
    • waking up tired

    Many women assume something is wrong with them. But often, the body is simply responding to an extended season of pressure.

    The body keeps score. Which is why supporting your body matters.


    5 Natural Ways to Reduce Stress Naturally

    1. Get Outside Every Day

    Fresh air, sunlight, and movement are powerful.

    Even a 10-minute walk can help create a break from the constant demands of life. You don’t need a perfect fitness routine, moving is all that is needed.

    Try:

    • walking after dinner
    • sitting on the porch with your coffee
    • taking a quick walk around the block
    • stretching outside

    Small amounts count.


    2. Release Stress Stored in the Body

    Many women carry stress in their:

    • neck
    • shoulders
    • jaw
    • upper back

    Sound familiar?

    Try this simple stress reset:

    Doorway Stretch

    • Stand in a doorway.
    • Place your forearms on the door frame.
    • Gently lean forward.
    • Hold for 20–30 seconds.

    Shoulder Rolls

    • Roll shoulders backward 10 times.
    • Take three slow deep breaths.

    You’d be amazed how much tension we carry without realizing it. Hopefully, not with arson (😂).


    3. Create a 5-Minute Quiet Routine

    You do not need an hour-long morning routine.

    You need a few moments of peace.

    Ideas:

    • prayer
    • journaling
    • reading Scripture
    • deep breathing
    • gratitude journaling
    • sitting quietly with a cup of tea

    The goal is simple:

    Create a small pocket of calm before the world starts demanding things from you.


    4. Simplify Your Life with Systems

    One of the biggest stress reducers I’ve discovered is creating simple systems.

    Things like:

    • meal planning
    • laying out clothes the night before
    • keeping a family calendar
    • creating routines
    • using checklists

    Systems reduce decision fatigue. And less decision fatigue means less stress. This is one reason I often say: “You don’t need more hustle. You need better systems.


    5. Support Your Body’s Basic Needs

    Sometimes the biggest improvements come from the simplest habits.

    Focus on:

    • drinking enough water
    • eating protein throughout the day
    • getting quality sleep
    • reducing excessive caffeine
    • moving your body regularly

    These basics are often overlooked, but they matter tremendously.


    Wellness Tools I Personally Enjoy to Reduce stress Naturally

    As part of my wellness routine, I also enjoy incorporating plant-based wellness products alongside healthy habits.

    These products are not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent disease.

    Stress Away

    Many people enjoy Stress Away as part of a calming evening routine, during quiet time, or while winding down after a busy day.

    stress away

    NingXia Red

    NingXia Red is an antioxidant-rich beverage that many people enjoy as part of their daily wellness routine.

    NingXia Red Drink

    Sleepyize

    Many women prioritize healthy sleep habits as part of stress management and overall wellness support. Sleepyize is one tool some people choose to include in their evening routine.


    Deep Relief Roll-On

    After long days spent at a desk or caring for others, many people enjoy Deep Relief as part of a self-care and relaxation routine.

    essential oil roller for soreness

    Final Thoughts

    Friend, if life has felt heavy lately, I want you to hear this: we are carrying a lot. It seems like in our 40s-50s, it starts to catch up with us. Ugh.

    But, my heart and hope is that we find tools that enable us to thrive in this post. Sometimes the most powerful thing you can do is stop trying to push harder and start supporting yourself better.

    Stress may be a part of life. But it doesn’t have to define your life. Small daily habits matter. Simple support matters. And so do you. You are a gift, we all are.


    Download My Free Wellness Guide

    If you’re an overwhelmed woman looking for simple, realistic wellness habits that fit real life, I’d love to send you my free Wellness Guide.

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    Inside you’ll discover:

    • simple wellness routines
    • hydration tips
    • stress-support habits
    • sleep-support ideas
    • plant-based wellness education
    • realistic strategies for busy women

    Download your free Wellness Guide today and start taking small steps toward feeling more like yourself again.

    In closing, for more on this subject; check out this blog post about 4 Kick Ace Ways to Bust Stress. For more holistic health strategies: check out this page full of solutions to different health and personal care challenges.

    I hope this gives you ideas how you too can reduce stress… naturally. Be blessed!

  • 5 Products That Ease Anxiety

    5 Products That Ease Anxiety

    Healing After Trauma: 5 Products That Transformed My Mental Health Journey

     

    March 2022 marked the end of my marriage, a deeply traumatic experience that left me tense and overwhelmed. Seeking relief, I turned to deep tissue massage, only to find my body still bracing for impact long after the session ended. Desperate for improvement, I embarked on a journey to enhance my quality of life, discovering five transformative products along the way.

    1. Ashwagandha Supplement: Ashwagandha, renowned for its emotional support and menopause symptom relief, became a staple in my daily routine. This natural supplement clears my mind, reduces tension, and induces a calming sensation throughout my body. [Link to product]

    2. Lemon Balm Tea: As a self-professed coffee enthusiast, adopting Lemon Balm Tea was a significant departure. Recommended by Dr. Eric Berg for its ability to increase gamma in the brain, this tea promotes relaxation and presence in my daily life. [Link to product]

    3. Magnesium Oil: Applied to my feet and forearms before bedtime, Magnesium Oil ensures a restful night’s sleep by keeping my body relaxed. Additionally, it leaves my feet feeling irresistibly soft, a welcome bonus to its calming effects. [Link to product]

    4. KidScents Unwind Pixie Sticks: From the trusted brand Young Living, these convenient pixie sticks offer instant relaxation whenever tension arises. A simple yet effective solution, they have become a must-have in my daily arsenal. [Link to product]Picture of Young Living Product: Kidscents' Unwind

    5. Stress Away Oil Blend: Another gem from Young Living, Stress Away Oil Blend, when applied to my wrists and neck, swiftly grounds me and restores balance. Despite its price, a single bottle lasts for months, making it a worthwhile investment in my mental well-being. [Link to product]Picture of Stress Away Roller Ball

    As I continue on my journey of healing and self-discovery, I invite you to share your own experiences and recommendations for mental health support. Together, we can create a supportive community and offer hope to those struggling with anxiety. Remember, these products have personally helped me, but I am not a medical professional—let’s embrace healing with joy and curiosity.

    Affiliate links are provided for convenience. I encourage you to explore these products further, but always prioritize your health and well-being. Enjoy the journey!

    It’s worth noting that in 2024, I remain single, but with each passing day, I find solace and joy in my healing journey, embracing the beauty of life once more.

    PS If you’d like to join my Young Living Team, you can [Product Link]

     

     
     
     
     
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