Category: Parenting

  • Unwind: A Gentle Bedtime Routine for Kids and Moms

    Unwind: A Gentle Bedtime Routine for Kids and Moms

    Unwind at Bedtime. This can feel like the hardest part of the day. With four kids, I used to dread bed time because it included some of our worst behavior. That is, until I found an iron clad way to do without the chaos.

    By evening, everyone is tired, overstimulated, and somehow still not ready to settle down. The lights are on, the energy is high, and your peaceful nighttime routine can start to feel more like wrestling caffeinated squirrels. If that sounds familiar, you are not doing anything wrong. Many families need simple, calming support to help the day come to a gentler close.

    That is why Young Living KidScents Unwind has become one of those products many families keep nearby for evenings that feel extra busy. Young Living describes it as a supplement formulated for children to help promote a calm and relaxed state, reduce restlessness, and help with occasional sleeplessness. Its official product materials highlight L-theanine, 5-HTP, and magnesium, and say it is intended for children ages 4 and older.

    And while it was designed for kids, I will tell you honestly that I have used it myself when I wake up in the night and cannot quite settle back down. For me, it has been one of those “lights out” supports that fits beautifully into a calm nighttime rhythm.

    Why bedtime feels so hard sometimes

    If you have ever wondered why bedtime can spiral so quickly, you are not alone. Kids carry a lot by the end of the day. School, activities, screens, emotions, noise, sugar, transitions, and plain old tiredness can all pile up. Even good days can end with wound-up energy.

    That is why bedtime often needs more than one command to “go to sleep.” It usually works better when you create a rhythm that helps the body and mind slow down.

    And that is where you become the hero of your home.

    Not because you make bedtime perfect, but because you create calmer patterns. You notice what helps. You choose gentle tools. You build a nighttime routine that supports peace instead of pressure.

    What is Young Living Unwind?

    Young Living KidScents Unwind is a supplement in single-serve powder stick packs. Young Living says it is formulated to help promote a calm state, reduce restlessness, help with occasional sleeplessness, and support focus and mental clarity.

    I originally bought it for those times when my kids have high anxiety and can’t seem to catch their breath. One of my kids completely loves this product, including the watermelon flavor. He says he can go to sleep after taking this.

    The featured ingredients Young Living highlights are:

    • L-theanine
    • 5-HTP
    • Magnesium

    That makes it appealing for families who want a gentle bedtime support option that is not centered on melatonin.

    What makes Young Living Unwind stand out?

    What I like about Unwind is that it fits into a routine instead of trying to replace one. And it is not more pills! Yay!

    It feels like a “help the evening go better” product, not a “force sleep now” product. That difference matters. A lot of moms are not looking for something harsh. They are looking for something that supports the kind of bedtime they are already trying to create: calmer lights, calmer voices, calmer bodies, calmer evenings.

    Young Living positions Unwind for children ages 4+ and describes it as helping promote calm and relaxation while supporting occasional sleeplessness and restlessness.

    That is exactly the kind of wording I think makes sense for bedtime content too. We are not talking about perfection. We are talking about support.

    A closer look at the key ingredients in Unwind

    L-theanine

    Young Living says L-theanine occurs naturally in green tea and helps promote relaxation while helping ease occasional irritability. The company also says it may support next-day focus and mental clarity.

    5-HTP

    According to Young Living’s product information, 5-HTP works synergistically with L-theanine to promote a calm state and assists in relieving occasional stress.

    Magnesium

    Young Living says magnesium is involved in hundreds of metabolic reactions in the body and may help support a sense of calm and help with occasional sleeplessness.

    How I would frame Unwind for bedtime routines

    If bedtime has been feeling chaotic, Unwind does not have to be the whole plan. It can simply be one helpful part of it.

    Think of it like this: you are not trying to win bedtime with one magic trick. You are building a softer landing at the end of the day.

    That might include:

    • dimming the lights
    • turning off overstimulating screens
    • keeping conversation quieter
    • using a consistent bedtime sequence
    • adding Unwind as part of that routine

    That is where this product makes the most sense to me. It belongs inside a gentle rhythm.

    My personal take on Unwind

    This is the part I would share honestly because personal experience matters.

    Unwind was designed for children, and I think it makes sense to keep that clear. But in my own life, I have used it when I wake up in the middle of the night and feel too alert to drift back off. For me, it has been one of those products that helps the night get quiet again.

    That is not a promise for everyone. It is simply my experience.

    And that is one reason I like it so much. It feels like something supportive to keep in the house, especially for families who want their evenings to feel less frantic and more peaceful.

    A simple nighttime routine to tame bedtime madness

    If you want bedtime to feel calmer, simpler, and less dramatic, here is a gentle routine to try:

    1. Lower the stimulation

    About 30 to 60 minutes before bed, start shifting the atmosphere. Turn lights down. Lower the noise. Help the evening feel different from the daytime pace.

    2. Keep the routine predictable

    Kids often settle better when bedtime happens in the same order each night. Bath, pajamas, brushing teeth, story, prayer, cuddle, bed. The exact steps matter less than the consistency.

    3. Use supportive tools, not pressure

    When evenings are especially restless, Unwind can be one supportive part of the routine. Young Living says it is formulated to help promote calm, reduce restlessness, and help with occasional sleeplessness.

    4. Make the room feel peaceful

    A cool room, soft blankets, low lighting, and less visual clutter can help bedtime feel calmer.

    5. Stay calm yourself

    This one is hard, but important. Children often borrow our nervous system. If bedtime feels tense, slowing your own tone and pace can make a bigger difference than you think.

    Who might like Unwind?

    This kind of product may appeal to:

    • families who want a calmer bedtime routine
    • parents of children who seem wound up at the end of the day
    • moms looking for a gentle nighttime support option to keep in the house
    • women who prefer a melatonin-free bedtime support category for their family routine

    Important notes before using Unwind

    Young Living’s product information says KidScents Unwind is for children 4 years and older. The label also advises checking with a healthcare professional if pregnant, nursing, taking medication, or managing a medical condition.

    This blog post is for educational purposes and personal sharing. It is not medical advice.

    Why this matters more than just one product

    The real goal is not just getting through one bedtime.

    The goal is helping your home feel calmer at night.

    When you create a bedtime rhythm that works, even imperfectly, you are doing something powerful. You are shaping the tone of your evenings. You are helping tired bodies and busy minds settle down. You are making nighttime feel safer, softer, and simpler.

    That is why I think products like Unwind can be so helpful. Not because they do everything, but because they support the kind of nighttime routine so many families are trying to build.

    Want a calmer night?

    If you are ready to make bedtime feel simpler and more peaceful, I created something just for you.

    Download my Free Nighttime Routine for gentle, practical steps to help you create a calmer evening rhythm for yourself or your family.

    Download My Free Nighttime Routine

    PS If you are an adult, please don’t feel left out. Click here for some products that help even the grown ups sleep better.

    For more along these lines, check out my post for Solving Kid’s Procrastination at Bedtime.

    Reach out with any questions. I genuinely love to find the root causes of symptoms, and how to support each person’s body right where they are. I hope to hear from you soon!

  • Conquering Bedtime Procrastination: Tips for Parents

    Conquering Bedtime Procrastination: Tips for Parents

    Bedtime Procrastinator: Master Level

    I need to make a confession.

    As a child, I was an Olympic-level bedtime procrastinator.

    I had tactics. Strategies. Advanced negotiation skills.

    My personal favorite was spotting a tiny spider or dust bunny in the corner of the ceiling and screaming like the house was on fire.

    Suddenly I had all the attention I could ever want, although it was negative in nature.

    Bedtime Procrastinators at Your House?

    Do you have any of these creative, mischievous littles in your castle? Let me jog your memory:

    • water
    • needs to use the bathroom for the 8th time in 5 minutes…
    • another hug
    • another blanket
    • a stuffed animal they haven’t seen in ten years – slight exaggeration
    • the need to pray for children in Asia
    • a story
    • deep life questions, ALL of these ONLY happen after laying down in bed… anyone else?

    If kids put the same energy into school that they put into avoiding bedtime, we’d have a nation of child geniuses.

    Bedtime Procrastinators: The Motive

    Possible reasons:

    • they don’t want the day to end
    • they want more connection time
    • they’re overtired
    • the routine is unpredictable

    I’ve personally thought it is mostly fear of missing out and separation anxiety. But who am I?

    Bedtime Procrastination Solutions

    When my kids were younger, bedtime sometimes felt like negotiating with tiny caffeinated kittens.

    What helped the most wasn’t being stricter.  It was having a predictable nighttime rhythm.

    And what finally brought the most peace? This may be a wet blanket on your hope, but… the biggest relief was when I decided to lay in the kid’s rooms until they fell asleep. Otherwise, I got more steps in after 8:30pm, then I did all day. (True story). Think massive trips with said items in hand over and over again.

    These things did help:

    bath
    • quiet time
    reading
    • lights out routine

    But what really brought peace is when I’d lay on their floors and read my grown up books silently, or catch up on emails. My presence helped them relax much quicker with so much less chaos. (Sorry, not sorry – it’s the truth).

    Free (my favorite F word), Procrastinator Deciminator…

    After going through years of bedtime chaos, I eventually wrote down the routine that helped our house settle down in the evenings.

    I turned it into a little guide for other tired parents.

    If you have a bedtime procrastinator in your house and want the routine, you can grab the guide here. (Although, I left out laying in their rooms until the “knock out moment”).

    You can grab your free Peaceful Routine Sleep Guide Here. Thanks for stopping by today. Please share your kids procrastination schemes. It would help us all to take a break and giggle. We sure get creative when we want to avoid stuff.

    Thanks for stopping by.

    Restful Essential Oils – download the pdf here, free for you…

    Favorite Products to Help Sleep.pdf – the exact items I use to herd my kittens, I mean four children 😂

    PS For more parent sanity, check out this post.

  • How Overwhelmed Moms Can Get Organized (Without Doing More)

    How Overwhelmed Moms Can Get Organized (Without Doing More)

    Introduction


    How overwhelmed Moms Can Get Organized without doing more… if you are like me; there is most likely a pile of dirty laundry somewhere, a few dirty dishes in the sink, some strange unrelated toys on the floor, and at least one bed in the house that is completely unmade. Can you relate or is it just me? Don’t get me started on the backpacks, shoes, and jackets!

    Overwhelmed mom, I see you, I am you too. Wouldn’t it be great if AI could come clean our homes like everything else? Ha!

    Most moms including me, aren’t disorganized as much as we are completely overloaded. If you are like me, I get an area “decluttered,” only to find it in disarray a few weeks later. I wonder if there are gremlins who mess my organized areas up at night (ha! I am aware it was my little children often making a mess as they try to find their prized possessions, sigh).

    When kids are young, the messes are normally toys, half eaten food, and dirty bibs. As they get older, it’s more sports equipment and uniforms strewn about. And even as kids age, it has been legos, craft supplies, and water bottles that litter my organized way of life. Anyone else? Anyone?

    This article is about reminding ourselves (me included) that organization is not about perfection, but on reducing the mental load. When everything has a place, I feel lighter. Knowing where things go, and the confidence that it is being kept there, doesn’t just help me when I need to find things, it gives me so much more peace and joy.

     

    “If your house feels messy and your brain feels full, this isn’t a motivation problem — it’s a systems problem.”


    Overwhelmed Moms, Getting Organized:

    Step #1: Start With ONE “Landing Zone”

    (This is the highest-impact action)

    Overwhelmed moms, getting organized starts with landing zones. Whether it’s the junk drawer for all the mysterious finds in the kitchen, hooks for hanging in the garage (on the way inside), or a nice basket with a lid by the front door, these are all known as the wonderful “landing zone.” I also love a good sized ottoman with storage to land the family room clutter.

    What I love about landing zones, is that when the cleaning fairy bites, motivating organization, we can put what is in the landing zones away. This limits overwhelm immensely. It also makes cleaning up fast!

    My favorite purchase when all of my children (The Fantastic Four) were under ten years old was the stair basket. Even with a crying baby in hand, I could put the items that needed to go upstairs in the “stair basket,” hidden away. Before I went to bed at night, I put what was inside the basket in its proper place (most nights to be honest – ha!).

     

    Why it works:

    • Reduces visual clutter
    • Reduces decision fatigue
    • Prevents piles from spreading

     

    “Don’t organize the whole house. Just give clutter a home.”


    Overwhelmed Moms get organized — Organize Your Time Before Your Stuff

    Step #2: Organized Moms organize their time before their Stuff

    (This is where you sound different from Pinterest moms)…

    When chaos is rushing by, clutter follow. So I tried to keep clutter at bay by cleaning up twice a day.

    After making breakfast, I would clean the kitchen. Then, after I fed the kids lunch, I’d put them down for nap and tidy up the house. Finally, at night after dinner, before baths, we would clean up again. It was not rare to need to vacuum at this point too. The kids would make crumb piles like nobody’s business. (Face palm).

    Simple actions:

    • Pick 2 daily anchors: these are two time a day that you straighten your home, keeping chaos at bay.
    • If you have neuro diverse kids like me, keeping their toys separated in clear containers with labels helped so much. This method assisted them in seeing what was inside. It kept their overwhelm at bay, when they wanted to explore.

    Examples:

    • 5-minute mid-day tidy
    • 10-minute evening reset

     

    “Your home doesn’t need hours of cleaning. It needs rhythms.”


    Overwhelmed Moms Get Organized – Create a “Not Today” List

    Step #3 Create a “Not Today,” List

    (Mental organization = physical relief)

    Moms often carry way too many invisible tasks. Does this sound familiar? “Timmy needs a haircut. The dog needs his flea treatment. Did I miss the deadline for gymnastics next month? Did I pay the classroom fees yet? When does Nora need her medicine next? Do we have enough mayo for BLT’s tonight?”

    See all these thoughts fly through our heads like a hurricane constantly. No wonder we fight overwhelm!

    I find keeping questions like these off my mind & in my phone or planner so liberating! It helps not carry the weight around.

    Next, I have times of the day that I deal with these things. Normally, before the kids wake up, I start making appointment calls. Then, I order groceries.

    Some might be giving me a look of judgment. Ordering groceries does cost extra. But, when I take my kids to the grocery store, it takes a couple hours of valuable time and we spend way more money. For me, it is such a HUGE when to oder the groceries; both financially and with time management.

    How to do it:

    • Write down everything stressing you
    • Move non-urgent items to a “later” list

    Why this helps:

    • Clears mental clutter
    • Reduces anxiety
    • Creates focus

     

    “Just because it matters doesn’t mean it has to be done today.”


    Overwhelmed Moms Get Organized — Simplify Daily Decisions

    Step #4: Simplify Daily Decisions

    (This lowers overwhelm fast)

    When overwhelm is plaguing us, decision fatigue is all too real. Sometimes, not choosing is best! What I mean by this is give ourselves grace. Every now and then, a jammy day is ok. A night with no bath isn’t going to shatter anyone.

    Sometimes, it is ok to have an extra half hour of screen time to keep peace and sanity. Often, choosing the path of least resistance simplifies decision making.

    Has anyone else noticed when there are too many choices, tiredness tends to be around the corner. Limiting choices can bring relief, not to mention another layer of organization.

    Examples:

    • repeat meals
    • simple outfits
    • set routines for errands, laundry, groceries

    Real life story: My youngest melted down every single morning when it was time to get dressed. She would cry. Laying on the floor, she refused to get her clothes on.

    We were always late to preschool. I was so embarrassed! She looked disheveled. During preschool, her dad and I unfortunately split up. Our pediatrician referred my youngest for counseling.

    Once in counseling, they told me to limit her clothes to four outfits. I cried. Dressing my kids was one of my favorite tasks. So I went through, putting most of clothes away in trash bags (it still hurts thinking about it). At the counselor’s advice, all her clothes we kept could be interchanged.

    I was skeptical, but no longer did we battle. She could go and get clothes out and they looked ok no matter what. This was one of those simplifying life made a giant impact. Try it, you might like it too.

    Reframe:

    “Repeating decisions isn’t boring — it’s freeing.”


    Overwhelmed Moms, Organize for the Season We are In

    Step #5 Organize for the season

    (Compassion-based organization)

    What worked last year may not work now. Times change. Getting ready for school in the family room, soon needs to be a private situation as kids age.

    Let our organization practice be fluid with time. The diaper organizer only lasts a short time. Prune what is no longer needed, making room for the new.

    We have to ask ourselves:

    • “What do I realistically have capacity for right now?”
    • “What system fits this season?”

    Key message:

    “Organization should serve your life — not shame it.”


    CONCLUSION: Systems Over Hustle

    Overwhelmed Moms Organizing Choose Systems Over Hustle

    Organizing isn’t about being a better mom, it’s about giving ourselves breathing room. I find getting organized cuts down on the overwhelm, giving a sense of preparedness for anything.

    Small systems bring great relief. Try living by the principle that everything has a place and is in its place. See how much better we feel!

     

    “You don’t need to do everything. You just need a few systems that work.”


    Don’t get more overwhelmed with organizing (ha! – the irony). Choose one small space and one small action each day. First: make landing zones. Second: organize your time. Third: Decide what you are not doing. Fourth: Simplify Daily Decisions. Fifth: Organize for the season.

     

    If you want help building simple systems that fit your real life, I share more of what’s helped me inside my community.

    If you would like my simple guide to organizing, click the form below this post.

    For more on this subject, check out this post.

    Thanks for stopping by. Talk soon =)

    -Jenn

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