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5 Super Powers Revealed in Starting Over
5 Superpowers Revealed in Starting Over
The Setup for Super Power Activation:
5 Superpowers I hope I reveal as I start over once again. Yes. I find myself jobless. I still have streams of income, thankfully. But my full time gig is null and void.
I found a fabulous part time job that paid as much as my former full time job. After giving my resignation, I took some time off to train through Quickbooks, as I prepared for my new position. Unfortunately, the new company called, they no longer wanted to hire me.
Thus, I am currently reinventing my life once again. I am hopeful that you see the following superpowers manifest as I super charge a miraculous comeback.
The first Super Power Revealed in starting over:
1. Radical Resilience
This isn’t just “bouncing back.” Bouncing back implies returning to the original shape. Radical Resilience is the superpower of bouncing forward. It’s the discovery that you are not made of glass; you are made of something far more elastic and durable. Devastation is the ultimate stress test. The person who makes a comeback discovers that their capacity to endure and to heal in magnitudes greater than they ever imagined. The comeback itself is the evidence of this superpower, and once known, it instills a foundational confidence that few other life events can.
Two divorces, a church excommunication, and countless broken relationships later; I pray I am the legend who can reinvent myself better than ever before.
For honesty sake, I am not responsible for all these resurrections. There is absolutely no way I could do this without the power of God helping me. Only with the power of Christ could I keep a sane mind in the midst of such destruction. Thank You Jesus!
This leads to the Second Superpower of starting over and bouncing back:
2. Profound Clarity
Devastation is a terrible but effective filter. It violently strips away the trivial, the petty, and the non-essential. All the things you thought mattered—social status, minor anxieties, old grudges, material possessions—are vaporized. What’s left is the absolute, undeniable core of what is important: life, love, health, and purpose. This superpower is like X-ray vision. It allows a person to see through social noise and make decisions with a powerful, focused precision that was impossible before.
Friends are losing their minds over the government shut down and I am encased in the never ending mission to send out resumes, network, and pick up small jobs for cash. I am eternally grateful to my family for helping me through this time. Without them, I would most likely be living in a shelter or on friends couches for days on end.
The perspective sure shifts when the bottom falls out. It has been torture, yet possibly equally refreshing.
And onto the third, Superpower I pray I am manifesting in starting over…
3. Adaptive Ingenuity
When the “Plan A” of your life is completely obliterated, there is no map. There is no path. You are forced off-road, into the wilderness. This is where Adaptive Ingenuity is born. It’s a superpower of creative problem-solving and pure innovation. You are forced to build a new life, a new career, or a new sense of self from the rubble. This power reveals your ability to pivot, to learn, and to construct a new reality from materials you didn’t even know were available to you.

Life feels like this so often! This, friends, is where I become so vulnerable (gulp). For about a year now, I have brainstormed a cohort where I would gather liked aged and minded women together. We would meet for six week sessions, creating income around our wildest dreams. This off grid dream is almost a reality. I am seeking sixteen women: eight ages 43 and under, and eight women 44 and over to partake of my Beta Build our Empire Cohort!
In the Build our Empire Cohort, the homework and self discovery will be fluid. We will come together and create brands, products, and services that will bring us the income to facilitate the life of our dreams. After the six week cohort, we will be able to have a step by step plan to build the empire we have always dreamed of!
This wilderness idea, became more of a necessity for me without my full time job. If you would like to be a part of my “Donation Only,” Beta group, reach out. I will send you the intake forms and we can see if you are a fit.
The Fourth Super Power that I am quite certain I am manifesting as I am starting over is:
4. Deep Empathy
Before devastation, sympathy is often an intellectual exercise (“Oh, that must be so hard”). After devastation, empathy becomes a visceral, physical sense. When you have lived in the deepest darkness, you gain the ability to recognize the pain in others without fear. You are no longer afraid of their grief because you have survived your own. This superpower allows you to connect with others on a fundamental human level, offering a kind of comfort and understanding that is impossible to fake. Your scars become a language.
My biggest people group that I empathize towards at this moment are the homeless. They could be me. It is getting cold in Ohio. My heart pangs for the marginalized. Maybe one day I can help solve such devastation as homelessness. I pray, “God use me.”
The 5th and final superpower I hope I am embodying is:
5. Fearless Authenticity
When you have faced your absolute worst-case scenario—and you are still standing—the “lesser” fears that used to rule your life lose their power. The fear of judgment, the fear of public speaking, the fear of failure, the fear of “what will they think?”… all of it seems almost comical in comparison. This gives rise to Fearless Authenticity. It is the freedom to be unapologetically yourself, to speak your truth, and to build a new life that is in 100% alignment with your hard-won values, not with anyone else’s expectations.
I’ve said it all my life, if I ever try to be fake, my facial expressions give it away! My heart is saved, my body language isn’t. Pray for me.
It is my hope my authentic self emulates gratitude in this season. Gratitude for endless possibilities. I am so humbly thankful for Young Living and the income I receive there. Overly grateful am I for the money that comes in through Meta. Amazon associates income always helps too.
In the name of necessity and authenticity, I have also authored some E books that I am hopeful bring in more income in the future. I will begin to promote them all in good time. Authentically, I hope these books help others achieve their full potential!
Summing up the 5 Superpowers of Starting Over:
It is my hope that if you see me bounce back higher after hitting a real low, you see you can do it too. I pray your come back is greater than mine.
Let’s take a moment and revel in the fact that life is very fragile. I hope we all soften and help others during this time.
As some are actually losing their minds, finding themselves in massively dire circumstances with the government shut downs, threats of deportations, and more – my hope is that we consider others. In this Holiday season, let’s concentrate on not making ourselves successful, but let’s boost others to greater things than our little selves can achieve alone.
For more information on this subject, check out the book by my favorite author (currently) Terri Savelle Foy, called: Make Your Dreams Bigger than Your Past. It is gold!

Another help for starting over is this giant year long dry erase calendar. It helps keeps us certain in being intentional throughout the whole year.
For more self-help gold, check out this vintage post: 5 Risk Taking Decision Makers. ♥
Please share in the comments below what superpowers have been revealed in your life as you have started over. Please share the circumstances around your comeback as well. Your story will be someone else’s survival guide. Thank you for your participation.
Remember: Action takers are money makers.
PS. If you are interested in either cohort, please let me know. I am thinking about hosting them on Googlemeet, which is free to everyone. #bestdaysahead
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5 Tips to Decision Making and Risk Taking

Say Goodbye to “What Ifs” and Hello to “I Did It!”: Embracing Bold Choices (Decision Making, Risk Taking)
Discussing Risk Taking and Decision Making is the goal of this post. I mean, how many times have you found yourself staring into the abyss of “what if?” What if I took that job? What if I said yes to that date? What if I finally told Brenda her casserole is… well, unique? We’ve all been there, stuck in a mental hamster wheel of possibilities that never actually happen.
But guess what? Life’s too short for “what ifs.” It’s time to grab the reins, ditch the doubts, and shout a resounding “HECK YES!” to bold choices. Think of it as upgrading your life from black and white to glorious Technicolor. Ready to paint your world with some daring decisions? Let’s go!
5 Ways to Kiss Those “What Ifs” Goodbye (Like They Just Borrowed Your Favorite Lipstick Without Asking):
Decision Making & Risk Taking Made Easy…
1. Name Your Fear Monster (and Then Giggle at Its Tiny Size): That nagging voice whispering all the reasons not to do something? That’s your fear monster. Give it a silly name – “Herb”, Brenda’s Casserole Monster, whatever tickles your fancy. Suddenly, it feels a lot less intimidating. Seriously, try it. “Oh, hey “Herb,” still worried I’ll trip on stage? Cute.”
***I like to call things out in my head: for instance if someone judges me out loud, “in my head, ‘I state, Judger.’ Or if someone overshares, “I think, ‘Boundaries.” I try to call out bad and positive behavior in my head – it helps me. Try it yourself.
2. Channel Your Inner Badace from a Movie Montage: Remember those scenes where the underdog trains hard and finally triumphs? Yeah, that’s you. Visualize your bold move as your personal power anthem moment. Cue the inspiring music! Even if your “triumph” is just ordering the spiciest thing on the menu, own it like you just saved the world. Visualizing is so important to manifesting our desired end result!
***For me, this is picturing my desired end result. Isn’t this what faith is? Romans 4:17 instructs us like Abraham to call those things, though they are not, as though they were. Mark 11:22-26 instructs us to speak to our mountains. In the same way, let’s dream in faith! See ourselves accomplishing those goals! Picture our dream life. Now, for a double dose of manifestation – speak it forth! Matthew 12 tells us, out of the abundance of the heart, our mouth speaks.
3. Reframe “Failure” as “Fabulous Learning Opportunity”: Okay, things might not always go exactly as planned. Shocking, I know. But instead of wallowing in “I knew it!”, think of it as collecting data. What did you learn? What would you do differently next time? Consider it a masterclass in life, taught by experience. Plus, you’ll have a great story to tell. Two marriages have been long data collections for me – lol!
*** Instead of seeing failures as dead ends, I think of them as great beginnings. So what if the first or even 18th try didn’t work. Muster up some strength, change the approach and try, try again. Failures support the fact that we are alive and trying. Each of us fail sometimes. Dust off the knees and go again.
4. Zoom Out and Look at the Big Picture (Spoiler Alert: Most “Mistakes” Aren’t Catastrophic): In the grand scheme of things, will this decision matter in a year? In five years? Probably not as much as you think. We tend to blow things out of proportion in the moment. Take a deep breath, zoom out, and realize that most “oopsies” are just tiny blips on your amazing life radar.
***This is a tough one for me. I am a details girl. Often focusing on the event, comes naturally to me. But I have to remember life is more about the journey than the destination. Big picture for me is not just being present today, but also preparing for the future. If we are present and plan, making the big picture (the whole jig saw puzzle), come together piece by piece, we can’t go wrong.
5. Just Freakin’ Do It (with a Wink and a Prayer): Sometimes, overthinking is the enemy of awesome. Turn off your brain’s endless debate club and just take the leap. It doesn’t have to be perfect. It just has to be done. You can always course-correct later. Think of it as a thrilling adventure – a little bit scary, a whole lot exciting.
***It’s easier to steer a moving ship! Sometimes the first step is the most difficult. Stepping out never feels comfortable. I personally, have never regretted when I have taken the first scary step. Whether it was jumping off a diving board, driving a new car, or starting some wildly important gig, I find great pleasure after taking that difficult first step. I bet you find accomplishments like this fulfilling too!
Just a smattering more on this topic. You may want to check out: Make Today Count by John Maxwell. It is an incredibly powerful read. Regret never comes after reading John Maxwell’s content!

5 Ways to Say a Big, Bold “Hello!” to Decision Making (Like You’re Greeting a Long-Lost Bestie):
Decision Making & Risk Taking Made Easy…
1. Embrace Your Inner Detective: Gather Intel (But Don’t Over-Snoop): Before making a big decision, do your homework. Weigh the pros and cons. Talk to trusted friends (the ones who won’t just tell you what you want to hear). But set a time limit! Don’t get stuck in analysis paralysis. Even Sherlock Holmes had to make a move eventually.
***Jesus says in Luke 14 to count the cost. I switched up attending Bible Schools, mostly because the smaller one was closer to home and less expensive. Regretting counting that cost (literally)? Regret from that choice has never come. I recommend thinking things through, especially big commitments for at least a few days before diving in. Preparation time is never wasted time.
2. Trust Your Gut (It’s Usually Wearing Fierce Lipstick): That little voice inside? It’s often wiser than you think. Learn to listen to your intuition. Does a certain option feel exciting or draining? Your gut can provide valuable clues, even if your brain is busy making spreadsheets. This is often the Holy Spirit’s guidance!
***The Holy Spirit’s Guidance puts us over! He has spoken to me vividly in dreams many times, keeping me from marrying one man. Other times the Spirit has spoken to me through friends, Bible verses, small confirmations – you have it. One important key is to remember the Holy Spirit always brings peace. If confusion or chaos are produced from a leading, that is a tall tale sign, that was not God’s Spirit. Let peace lead us!
3. Start Small, Celebrate Big (Think Baby Steps in Killer Heels): You don’t have to quit your job and move to Bali overnight (unless you want to, you magnificent creature!). Start with smaller decisions that push your comfort zone. Order that weird-sounding dish. Strike up a conversation with a stranger. Celebrate each small victory – you’re building momentum!
***Small victories for me are often actually making something happen like organizing a pile, writing a blog post – ha!, starting a presentation. What are small victories for you? Let’s make sure when we have victories, we reward ourselves somehow. Positive reinforcement can make a world of difference!
4. Visualize Your “I Did It!” Moment (Imagine the Applause): Picture yourself having made the bold choice and feeling amazing. What does that look like? How does it feel? Visualizing success can boost your confidence and make the decision feel more tangible and less scary. Think of it as your personal highlight reel. I’d say speak affirmations of the moment as well. Faith speaks into existence (Hebrews 11:3).
***Soon, I want to post an amazing affirmation I have. I have been lead to use it when I sense a breakthrough needs to happen in my life. Stay tuned, I will share it with you. Get ready for MAJOR movement in your life – the best kind… Divine promotion (Psalm 75:6-7).
5. Surround Yourself with “Heck Yes!” People (Ditch the “Maybe Maebels”): Your squad matters. Surround yourself with people who encourage your growth, celebrate your courage, and remind you of your awesomeness. Ditch the Debbie Downers and the “maybe maebels” who suck the boldness right out of the room. You deserve a cheering section!
***Our tribe determines our vibe, choose wisely. Proverbs 13:20 tells us the wise connect with the wise. Acts 6:2 gives us great keys in choosing people to hang around. I like to find friends who stretch me. It is never a goal to have close friends who influence me to live smaller or shrink back.
6. This is a bonus for you. I love to over deliver! **The Biggest key has not been listed yet: We need to pray about it FIRST AND FOR MOST! Prayer changes things, mostly ourselves! Ask God before doing anything else. Watch Matthew 6:33 come to pass before our very eyes! #bestdaysahead
So, ladies, are you ready to trade those “what ifs” for some seriously empowering “I did its?” The world is waiting for your bold moves, your daring decisions, and your unapologetic “heck yeses!” Go out there and make some magic happen! You’ve got this. Now go tell Brenda her casserole story. (Just kidding… unless…?)
PS. In the comments below, please share crossroads you are facing. What choices do you need to make? I would love to hear! What methods do you employ when making decisions? What small wins do you celebrate in your life? Feel free to share your strategies in the comments as well.
For more Women Encouragement, please check out this post entitled: 3 Sneaky Ways to Add Personal Development (the post really lists 4 Ways, but who is counting – ha!)




















